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Order that founded St. Raphael’s celebrates its 150th ... - New Haven Register

Article: Order that founded St. Raphael’s celebrates its 150th birthday NEW HAVEN — It was 1907 when four nuns from the Sisters of Charity of St. Elizabeth mortgaged their house in New Jersey and came to New Haven to convert a house on Chapel ...

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Mexico City: American victims rise in drug war - Tulsa World

More Americans in Mexico are falling victim to a wave of drug violence sweeping the country, a change driven home by the recent killing of a U.S. Consulate employee and her husband who were gunned down after leaving a children's birthday party

Mighty Barrow AFC are going to Wembley - North West Evening Mail

Local hero Jason Walker, who tomorrow celebrates his 26th birthday, scored both of Barrow's goals. The striker's first came from the penalty spot on 51 minutes. Salisbury skipper Darrell Clarke equalised five minutes later. The home side then had to ...

Birthdays Seen on Good Day - Mar 18 - MyFox Atlanta

ATLANTA - Click on the video to check out today's birthday beauties. To submit a birthday picture for air on Good Day Atlanta, email the picture to birthdays@myfoxatlanta.com . Please email the pictures at least 10 days in advance -- or mail a photo ...

How to send us birthdays - WDBJ7.com

Please include the name, age and hometown of the person having the birthday. Some people are sensitive about their age, so that can be left out--but we definitely need the name and hometown. We prefer that you email us your photos as jpeg attachments ...

Man celebrates 70th birthday with 70 holes of golf - KSN.com

... his 70 th birthday in a unique way. He played 70 holes of golf alongside his 70-year-old friend, walking the entire course. Click on the play icon to watch the story by KSN photojournalist Rob Hardy. This station will not store your email ...

On the front line of news - The Independent

As Packham said in her birthday email from Camp Bastion: “I’m incredibly humbled to be here and I really believe that many people outside the military loop just have no idea what these boys and girls go through.”

Happy birthday, broadband - Daily Telegraph

... put, that was because throughout the Nineties websites had been straining at a technological leash – more sophisticated purposes, whether that meant using the web to handle email itself or just more advanced websites, were not possible with ...

Parents forget boy, 3, at birthday party, don't realize ... - KSN.com

DETROIT, Michigan (NBC) -- Police in Warren, Michigan are investigating after a three-year-old boy was left alone after his own birthday party. Police said the boy ... This station will not store your email address or your recipient's email address ...

Open Question: Please help...idk what to do? I like him but he likes another girl...he's acting so confusing! :(?

Repost: just geting more answers I hope :) I liked this guy since we became friends. He's a new student in my school since sept and he's been living in America for almost 2 years from china. So he is outrageously shy, haha. (I.e.-he used to sit with me at lunch but stopped becuz he told me he's shy -.-) I give him so many hints about me liking him like giving a secret admirer letter, attempt to talk to him everyday, buy him a present for his birthday and say he's a cute guy. I don't know if he fully gets the hint cuz he doesn't fully understand English... Well last week, I asked him if he liked anybody and he says he does...an old friend from china... I mean I felt bad for him because he doesn't get to see her cuz she's on the other side of the planet but I was heartbroken because he has no clue I like him after all my hints and he likes another girl. What should i do? Should I tell him how I feel to get it out of me or should I keep it to myself? I feel so sad , I really like him but Idk I kinda thought I had a chance... There are Things he did that makes me think he does like me but things he does that doesn't ... Signs of like- walks me to class, sits with me at lunch, emails everyday, asks me if I had a boyfriend neg signs- doesn't sit with me at lunch anymore, likes another girl(big one) :( more

Open Question: I like him but he likes someone else...He acts so confusing :(?

I liked this guy since we became friends. He's a new student in my school since sept and he's been living in America for almost 2 years from china. So he is outrageously shy, haha. (I.e.-he used to sit with me at lunch but stopped becuz he told me he's shy -.-) I give him so many hints about me liking him like giving a secret admirer letter, attempt to talk to him everyday, buy him a present for his birthday and say he's a cute guy. I don't know if he fully gets the hint cuz he doesn't fully understand English... Well last week, I asked him if he liked anybody and he says he does...an old friend from china... I mean I felt bad for him because he doesn't get to see her cuz she's on the other side of the planet but I was heartbroken because he has no clue I like him after all my hints and he likes another girl. What should i do? Should I tell him how I feel to get it out of me or should I keep it to myself? I feel so sad , I really like him but Idk I kinda thought I had a chance... There are Things he did that makes me think he does like me but things he does that doesn't ... Signs of like- walks me to class, sits with me at lunch, emails everyday, asks me if I had a boyfriend neg signs- doesn't sit with me at lunch anymore, likes another girl(big one) :( more

Open Question: Help! I am having trouble writing a 'thank you' e-mail?

Okay..to cut a long story short. I have been travelling for a few months and have stopped by my house to celebrate my 21st birthday here. I have no time to send 'thank you' cards so I am sending emails out. Can somebody word a quick e-mail for me? I want to thank my aunty for sending me a beautiful card (she made) and a cheque. I want to give very brief details of my travelling aswell but don't want to go on and on (we're not very close)..I am stuck for ideas of what to put ! Please helppp. Best answer will be that special person who helped me most :) Thanksss!! more

Open Question: in love and lost, idk what i should do?

help. how do i fall out of love and move on when we have a complicated history? ok so ive known this guy since we were like 7 we're the same age and grew up together, our moms are best friends and everything. every birthday party, holiday, vacation, we spent together. as we grew up we had feelings for each other that just continued to go back and forth but we never dated. we constantly flirt and when we are together there is an obivous attraction in both directions. but the thing is he seems to always have a girlfriend. and he pays no mind to me when im not at his house or like out with him somewhere. like sometimes we'll text or email IM or something of that nature but it seems like im making all the efforts towards talking. i have grown really close to this guy and we have a lot of fond memories together, but it just seems like he's only interested in me when i am around and when i'm not it's like i don't exist....i don't know what to think anymore. i keep thinking that i need to move on and somehow just drop all my feelings but whenever that crosses my mind we end up hanging out or there's a family event and the flirting starts all over again. he's always making remarks about us in a relationship telling people im his girlfriend and we have always been the butt of the family teasings. his whole family has always wanted us to get together and ALWAYS makes comments on it...to this day. they say that we are going to get married and have kids etc lol its pretty funny because his grandpa threatens to shoot him if he ever hurts me. i love his family and i love him and i know that i do but i just don't know what to do ????? can anybody help me? and right now he is currently in a relationship with someone who he was friends with before dating and he says he loves her and seems to really be happy and that makes me happy because i know he truly is and i don't want to mess that up. the last thing i want to do is be a "homewrecker" but i can't stop the feelings that he should be with me. i guess you can say i'm just REALLY confused. more

Open Question: Girls, does comments like this make you feel uncomfortable?

Situation: I like my one of my friends A LOT, but I can tell that she doesn't like me that way. We never talked about this stuff but I'm pretty sure she knows I like her, but I'm not sure if she knows that I am fine with her not liking me. Anyways, since I am fine with her not liking me, I still like to tell her how beautiful she is (When ever I can). I tell her when we talk through email,or like on her birthday card, and rarely tell her when we're talking. Anyways since she was talking about she was worried about her hair I wanted to say "Your hair is fine, it always looks nice. I know you're probably tired of hearing this but you're are very beautiful, when your hair isn't done, when you aren't trying to dress nice, well you get the idea; you always look beautiful :)" Comments like that Does it make you feel uncomfortable if you still think he likes you "that way"? Does it make you feel uncomfortable if you know he's okay just being friends? more

Open Question: How to Finding my half-brother?

I have a half brother who is 27 years old. I know his full name, birthday, place of birth, his mothers name, his step fathers name, obviously our dad's name, where he lives, where his mom lives. But the one problem is that his mom has tried everything to separate my brother and my dad and me from seeing each other. I haven't seen him since I was 3 and now I am 21. I have tried to send him letters to his address and he hasn't answered. Call his number and was told it wasn't his. I'm not sure if he hates us or his mom just takes the letters and throws them away. Just for the record my father is the one of the best fathers out there, one of a kind. He always cares for me and a day doesn't go by that he doesn't think about my brother. It just that he didn't get along with my brothers mother. she was always arguing with him for no reason. What I am trying to get at is what can I do to try and contact my brother without being intercepted by his mother. I have tried myspace, facebook and he doesn't seem to have one. unless it is under his email which I don't have. more

Open Question: do you think i should send her that song?

about 11 month ago i was in love with a girl and i hurt her so bad by my fear of commitment and pushed her away today is her birthday and i wanna send her barry manilow's 'can't smile without you' but the thing is ,i met her about 6 month ago and she was clearly hurt by me and i told her i have to see her before she leaves town , but the day comes and she waited for me and i just didn't show up (no matter what the reason was) and that was the last time i ever heard about her now i know her email and i know she still uses it , do you think i should send her that song? BQ: what the fk is wrong with me more

Open Question: Long Story...Why is she not talking to me? What did I even do wrong?!!? {Long..Beware} Please Answer?

Ok..So,Again,If you're going to be an ass while answering,JUST SKIP TO ANOTHER AND NEXT QUESTION,THIS QUESTION IS FOR NICE,SMART PEOPLE WHO DON'T ACT LIKE 13 YEAR OLDS,GOING AROUND STOMPING ON THE PEOPLE WHO NEED HELP!!!! So...My best and dearest friend passed away 4 years ago,I still think of him all the time..Oh how I love and miss him!! I have his sister 'Becca',[So she calls herself,I never call her Becca do...] But,The same day he died,Last year,{The day he died,Just not the same year!} She took his pictures on her myspace,And made every single picture,And the album PRIVATE! It still pisses me off..BUT WARNING:I AM NOT A HEARTLESS BITCH,I UNDERSTAND SHE MAY BE HAVING A HARD TIME,I CAN UNDERSTAND..I'M HURTING TOO,BUT STILL..SHE IS IGNORING ME! I posted a comment after months of her not having those pictures on her myspace..And lied and asked her if she would send them to my 'aunt',And I was lieing..I gave her my email address,{I use a friend's email address on myspace..} And she got online a day later,And then days later,She never answered,Someone left a few comments above mine,I went to their page,And she answered them in a SNAP!! I then left a comment asking her if she was alright,Again...NEVER ANSWERED,She gets on often,I know she does,And she doesn't have anyone else answer her stuff for her,Because she answers her friend's comments! And then,Forever later,Her birthday came up,And I left a nice and sweet 'Happy Birthday' Comment on her profile,I've never been mean to her..But now i'm getting pissed! I want to be friends with her,And I really want those pictures of my dearest friend..I'm not selfish,I know she probably made them private so that she won't get sad by going to her page..Or something? I don't know why she would hide them from me,And all her friends..{If she even IS hiding it from them too!} ..What the hell did I do wrong? Please tell me? I can understand she's having a hard time,But she adds new pictures on myspace,talks to friends-Responds to their comments!,Etc..And acts like nothing is wrong..I'm a lot younger than her,So I don't see as to why she would ignore me..{Lol,I know how adults and elders aren't mean to the teens..} But still man,I don't see what I even did wrong..Did I say something wrong? Because I've never really said much to her...And I am not,And Don't even want to come off as a crazy girl! I am not obsessed with her brother,I love and miss the hell out of him! I just need the photos for my ipod..AND don't even say:"Oh get over it.." OR "This is too long for me to read!" I really don't know what I did wrong..Help? P.S.And yes,She does know me..We've seen each other in person numerous times before..But,I still don't know why she would ignore me like that..It makes no sense!LOL,I mean to put:I have becca added on myspace!! more

Resolved Question: (HPT PIC) PLEASE LOOK?

i am 15dpo and took a test this afternoon i ovulatedearly this time and have been getting really faint ones since 7dpo i ovulated on the 6th day of my cycle thats never happened before, can you please look at my test i just want to make sure it looks right, it turned positive right away, iam saving this surprise for my husband he has no idea he works out of town an i want to email the pic of this test to him its his birthday tomorrow http://www.canyouseealine.com/view_home_pregnancy_test.cfm?testID=6475to dylans s mine were just like that at first to i took one ever day and watched it get darker i didnt really think it was real untill todayand thank you you guys for looking and the positive comments more

Resolved Question: De-Memorializing a Facebook account?

My brother passed away last year and I thought it would be a nice idea to memorialize his page, as he had hundreds of friends and his page had become a shrine with so many messages. I wasn't sure what the memorializing option would do to his page, I was just worried they were going to close it down because his email address needed to be verified and I didn't know his hotmail password, but knew his facebook one. So anyway, all his page has on it now are messages beginning from the day he died, everything else he ever did has vanished, which really upsets me, for example on my sons 1st birthday he wrote me a really sweet birthday message and now it's gone??? his name is greyed out if you ever write on his wall or anything, and he can't be found in search. My mum recently joined facebook and obviously she would like to be able to see his page and what his friends are posting to him. I'd like to make his page open to everyone and de-memorialize it- i just want it back the way it was. PLEASE HELPthanks! does anyone know the best way to contact facebook? i cant find anywhere on the homepage more

Open Question: This shouldn't be a big deal, but i;m fucking making it one. help please.?

Okay, so my birthday is in a couple weeks and I asked for a GOOD CAMERA. I was on my dad's email reading the emails he had exchanged with my grandpa about the camera. They completely ignored what I asked for and it looks like they're getting me a shit camera that I don't want, but won't be able to say so. they've already bought the camera but I DON'T WANT IT. How do I get out of keeping it without saying I think it's a piece of shit, which would hurt their feelings and make it look like I'm an ungrateful bitch, but the camera they're getting me is even shitter that the one I have now. And I'm not supposed to know they've bought it etc...another thing, I'm 15 and I can't drive yet, so I won't e able to return it on my own, and if I get a new one they will ask questions. more

Resolved Question: How was your week . ?

It has been a tough week for me. I think I've asked a lot of questions. I raised all my grades up fro a d to a b. I got grounded and ungrounded. I joined track. Learned that I'm good at the high jump and not so good at running (10.35 mile run and 19.5 sprint). Did some research for my maybeee future career. Did high school skedualling for next year. (I'm in 8th grade) met new "friends" at track.... Haha little 6th grade boys. I emailed my mean teacher with a complaint . I stood up to a mean girl for my sister. (I'm always there for her lol) I baked cookies all by myself . I finally got >8 hours of sleep a night. I lived 2 days without myspace. I found out that my best friend is my 2nd cousin. I ran a mile. I ate at a 50s style restaurant till I puked. I went to a birthday party. I jogged/walked 6 miles in 2 hours in the freezing cold (36 degrees and windy) . I learned a new song on the flute in 30 mins and got it almost perfect. I sneaked chips in my room to eat at midnight. My seasonal allergy came back. I wrote a 700 word essay. I moved on from my old crush. I pointlessly took pictures of a football field. I touched fake grass for the first time in my life. So yeah I've had a tough week!! But all my acomplishments make me feel good about myself. Tell me about your week: more

Open Question: Is this morally ok to do or creepy,weird&starting trouble & i should do nothing?

My ex & i had huuge fallingout when i got pregnant...is sending him a picture of the ultrasound a good or bad idea? We had a huge fight and haven't really talked at all....we dated for 2 1/2 years before this happened. i switched pill brands and didn't wait long enough so it was an accident. he is absolutely furious because he thinks i "did this on purpose." his birthday is coming up in the next couple weeks...do you think it'd be a good or bad idea to email him a pic of the ultrasound and a small message saying happy birthday? or is that wayy too creepy & he can get ahold of me if he wants to? we're both 25. he assumed i would get an abortion&was furious when i didn't get one :(i asked this once in the preg section once &only under this name so STFU or don't answer the question jerk more

Open Question: My ex&i had huuge fallingout when i got preg...sending him pic of ultrasound for his bday good idea or bad?

We had a huge fight and haven't really talked at all....we dated for 2 1/2 years before this happened. i switched pill brands and didn't wait long enough so it was an accident. he is absolutely furious because he thinks i "did this on purpose." his birthday is coming up in the next couple weeks...do you think it'd be a good or bad idea to email him a pic of the ultrasound and a small message saying happy birthday? or is that wayy too creepy & he can get ahold of me if he wants to? we're both 25 and he has a good job. hes furious i didn't get an abortion :( more

Open Question: My wife hates my family and I dont know what to do.?

basicly, we have been together since 2007 and ever since we got engaged we have had so much hassle from my family its unreal!! My parents are divorced since 2004 After we got engaged in 2007 my mum fell out with the inlaws over the phone after she asked my MIL all sorts of personal stuff avbout their history and family. My mother expected me to take her side but I stood by my wife and so my mother disowned me, ignored our wedding or the announcemment that we were expecting a baby. then took a polygraph test to prove she hadnt said things. Anyway then things went bad with my dad and step mum and us. firstly my dad thought we had gotten engaged when we did because we knew he was away (we didnt) so that my mum could come to celebrate with us. So i got bollocked for that which ruined the time. Then they said we had gotten engaged, later married and later again, a baby too soon. Then after the baby came and we were knackered trying to figure out how to care for our little baby we got grief that we had forgotten to send thankyous to people that had sent us gifts, that we werent dressing our child in the clothes that they had given us when they were visiting (dont know who's clothes were from who at the time!) that we werent grateful for what we'd had, then we forgot step mums birthday, then bought something from step mum that apparently she made a profit from, then there was the issue that my dad and step mum felt my wifes parents were round too much and they didnt want to; do the same and be a pest (they wouldnt have been) and they also didnt want to pop over and feel they had to compete for our attention!! Whenever my inlaws offered them to come for dinner they made some excuse which was becoming embarassing. My wife really resents this as when my inlaws realised this they then felt awkward coming over to see us. So my wife hates them for that. Eventually, it all came to a head when my Step mum emailed my wife to bollock her for the way she was behaving after they visited and there was an atmosphere. My wifes had PND and erratic hormones after the baby and her nan was ill in hospital at the time dying. My wife replied a little strongly but thats her style. then recieved another email back and has been totaly anti my dad and step mum ever since. Now it's my sons birthday this week and my dad and step mum havent seen him since November even tho we only live 5miles away. I've had a text just now off my step mum saying that I dont know what i'm doing to my dad and that he doesnt deserve this. If I mention to my wife that I should pop over to see them with our son she says that she doesnt want our son anywhere near my step mum and why cant my dad come and see us but I try to explain that there is so much awkward tension now that he isnt going to want to. I dont want to go there and be subjected to it either but feel it's my duty as a son. we always end up having a huge fight about it, even if I just mention their name or say i had a email off them (not what the email said) she gets in a stinking mood and we have come close to splitting up a few times over it. She says all they do is make everyone else feel guilty about things and they should have made more of an effort. I now feel guilty about not seeing my dad but dont know what to do about my wifes feelings. i know that if i do visit them i will have to sit and listen to how eveil we are, what we have done to my dad and that its all my wifes fault and that i should stand up to her. Ive texted my dad and asked him if he wants to come with me and my son to feed the ducks on sunday morning in the park. Not had a reply yet more

Open Question: how do i convince my wife that I can see my dad.?

basicly, we have been together since 2007 and ever since we got engaged we have had so much hassle from my family its unreal!! My parents are divorced since 2004 After we got engaged in 2007 my mum fell out with the inlaws over the phone after she asked my MIL all sorts of personal stuff avbout their history and family. My mother expected me to take her side but I stood by my wife and so my mother disowned me, ignored our wedding or the announcemment that we were expecting a baby. then took a polygraph test to prove she hadnt said things. Anyway then things went bad with my dad and step mum and us. firstly my dad thought we had gotten engaged when we did because we knew he was away (we didnt) so that my mum could come to celebrate with us. So i got bollocked for that which ruined the time. Then they said we had gotten engaged, later married and later again, a baby too soon. Then after the baby came and we were knackered trying to figure out how to care for our little baby we got grief that we had forgotten to send thankyous to people that had sent us gifts, that we werent dressing our child in the clothes that they had given us when they were visiting (dont know who's clothes were from who at the time!) that we werent grateful for what we'd had, then we forgot step mums birthday, then bought something from step mum that apparently she made a profit from, then there was the issue that my dad and step mum felt my wifes parents were round too much and they didnt want to; do the same and be a pest (they wouldnt have been) and they also didnt want to pop over and feel they had to compete for our attention!! Whenever my inlaws offered them to come for dinner they made some excuse which was becoming embarassing. My wife really resents this as when my inlaws realised this they then felt awkward coming over to see us. So my wife hates them for that. Eventually, it all came to a head when my Step mum emailed my wife to bollock her for the way she was behaving after they visited and there was an atmosphere. My wifes had PND and erratic hormones after the baby and her nan was ill in hospital at the time dying. My wife replied a little strongly but thats her style. then recieved another email back and has been totaly anti my dad and step mum ever since. Now it's my sons birthday this week and my dad and step mum havent seen him since November even tho we only live 5miles away. I've had a text just now off my step mum saying that I dont know what i'm doing to my dad and that he doesnt deserve this. If I mention to my wife that I should pop over to see them with our son she says that she doesnt want our son anywhere near my step mum and why cant my dad come and see us but I try to explain that there is so much awkward tension now that he isnt going to want to. I dont want to go there and be subjected to it either but feel it's my duty as a son. we always end up having a huge fight about it, even if I just mention their name or say i had a email off them (not what the email said) she gets in a stinking mood and we have come close to splitting up a few times over it. She says all they do is make everyone else feel guilty about things and they should have made more of an effort. I now feel guilty about not seeing my dad but dont know what to do about my wifes feelings.i know that if i do visit them i will have to sit and listen to how eveil we are, what we have done to my dad and that its all my wifes fault and that i should stand up to her.Ive texted my dad and asked him if he wants to come with me and my son to feed the ducks on sunday morning. Not had a reply yet more

Open Question: Birthday Video! Who would record a video and send it to me?

Hey everybody, could you help me??? Im making a birthday video, my idea is to record family and friends saying their birthday wishes to my boyfriend who lives in USA (I`m from Mexico) Im traveling to visit him for his birthday. I have 1 more week since now, to prepare this video. Could you help me?? Who could help me? I`m asking you to record a video with your webcam or cellphone and send it to me? just saying HAPPY BIRTHDAY CHRIS, it would be perfect if you add: I`M FROM: _______ (or if you would like to say something else, it would be ok :) ) Pleaseeee help me!? My email address : princesadedios9@yahoo.com more

Open Question: Has anyone else had a bad experience with xpertron.co.uk?

I am so annoyed. On the 5th March I ordered a cartridge for my autistic brother's birthday so he could turn his DS into an MP3 player. I ordered recorded delivery and got an email on the 8th confirming it was being dispatched from a UK centre. I've still not received anything. I went into my account to see the order status and it didn't appear in my account history. I emailed them and around 36 hours later (despite promising all queries answered within 12 hours) and rather than advising me on where my package is or providing me with the royal mail tracking number, they merely told me "To see your order, please login to your account. Go to Order Information at the middle column. You should be able to see that your order has been completed." NOT GOOD ENOUGH! So I emailed again, 48 hours ago asking for my tracking number. Nothing. My poor autistic brother is getting really anxious over it and I felt so bad I've had to order another off of a more reputable website. I wouldn't hesitate to warn any one of you against this company! They are run horrifically badly. As far as I am concerned, they have made me such a non-priority and keep fobbing me off. They have upset a 16 year old autistic boy as well as a 22 year old woman who lives off disability benefits. I suppose my question is this: Can I initiate an online small claim process? Their website says they'll refund or replace after 20 days of not arriving but I don't trust them. They've skirted the issues I've raised and not given me a tracking number. I smell a rat!I used their ticket system. I even upped the importance to urgent because my brother got into such a state. I'm now writing to them to claim a refund evoking my rights under the distance selling regulations. If they sent it by recorded delivery as they claim they'll see I've received nothing. more

Open Question: parents problems and I'm not sure what to do.?

in 2004 my parents split up. My mother found her "childhood sweetheart" on friends reunited and just desided to leave my Dad. I guess they hadnt been happy for a while. My dad told me to remove everything of hers from the house that very same day she left and I had to pack all her stuff into boxes which made it feel like she was dead. He started meeting women through an internet dating site almost immediately and was going off around the country meeting them while my brother who was 20 and living at home had to keep giving him about half is wages as keep which he then used as petrol cash to travel around. eventually he met another woman and she moved in to our house and soon there were pictures of people we dont know on the mantle piece which was a bit weird for my brother. I basicly took on the role of looking after my brother and my mother put a deposit down on a house for us that we both shared. My brother kept taking the house joint account overdrawn tho and I've had to keep bailing him out. My Mother fell out with my wifes parents and because I took my wifes side, she refused to have anything to do with us, she never came to our wedding and when my wife got pregnant, we hardly heard anything from her. (she does send our son presents at christmas tho which is something) My brother took my mothers side and has never even been to see our son or sent him a card or present or anything even tho he only lived 10 mins walk away. We have fallen out with my Dad and step mum because, they rarely popped over to see us after the arrival of our baby as they dont like my wifes parents and they said they didnt want to be a nuisance and it felt like we had to go there instead, we forgot my step mums birthday, we forgot to send thankyous for presents when our baby arrived, we asked them to dog sit at the last minute when my wifes nan was ill which they took the hump about and then my step mums emailed my wife to bollock her and now my wife wont entertain having anything to do with them and if I say Im going to see them we have a big fight. I get emails off my dad saying its not their fault that this has happened, its my wifes and that my wife is as bad as my mother and I should stand up to her. My wife says that after all my family has put me through, how can i go running back to them every time my dad makes me feel guilty about not seeing them. To be honest, yes I do sometimes feel that I would like to see my parents but I have had so much S**T to deal with since they split up in 2004 that I just cant be arsed seeing them anymore. I left home in 1998 and joined the military, I got posted back to a base near home in 2006 but I dont feel that I need to go home much more than if we were hundreds of miles away. I just want to get on with my life and be happy with my wife and son. My wife, however, is from here too and her parents live close by. They have been popping round loads since we had a baby and while sometimes they can be annoying, they have been such a help because whatever people say, it takes time to learn to become a dad and their help has been so much appreciated. My Dad and step mum dont seem to be able to realise tho is that after our baby was born, my wife was very poorly, she had a hard labour with all the interventions and then there was post natal depression, and so rather than worrying about thankyou cards, I was trying to look after my wife and baby. I've just had enough of all of them really. Now its my sons first birthday and Ive had an email off my dad saying that Ive really hurt him that I havent been round to see them and to give our son a kiss from him. This makes me feel guilty, my wife doesnt know ive had this email because she would explode if she did. I dont want anything to spoil our sons birthday. Should i go and see them and try and patch up my whole family or am I right in saying F**K the lot of them and just get on with my own life? I'm very sorry this is such a long rant. more

Open Question: Am I being scammed? I am selling a LCD TV on Craigslist for $350?

I spoke with a person via email who was interested and got this response Nice hearing back from you , i want you to know that i am so serious in buying your (Sony Bravia )and i will not be able to come for the pickup ,I will be glad if you can be so nice to help me ship it down to my daughter for her Birthday gift ,So i am ready to pay you $400 for the Sony Bravia cost including the shipping cost , and i will prefer paying you via paypal,because it is very fast and secure ,so do get back to me with your paypal email for the instant payment or you sign up for a paypal personal account. Thanks. I think is just seems to good to be true more

Open Question: What do you think of this so called friend of mine?

I had this friend and we were freids until she moved away and lost contact so we didnt talk for like 10 years and then my mom died and she and her fmaily came for the funeral ( they found it on on the radio or something) ....so that wa sin october then the following may we met up with another frend of hers ( also my old frend) and went to celebrate my Birthday. Before that we chatted on msn occasionally but not alot more like rarely then we didnt..... except like once or twice til this time now ..... now i emailed her like 2 weeks ago when i can call her and she replied today saying i should call tonight and sorry she took so long cuz of homework .... i also saw her at a new years party and we kinda got into an argument cuz i told her how she forgot me and she got all upset ( but she was kinda drunk) and i wasn't. Basically my question is why did she ask to call tonight on Saint Patricks day when she is probably hanging out with frends I assume since she does go to parties and she does drink so it would be kind aunlikely for her to stay in her dorm on this evening, right?? what do u think? and if she is out then why would she want me to call tonight? wouldnt more privacy be more special or would it be more special this way?? It is already 11 pm so to late to call anyways... but just wondering cuz this got me thinking the whole evening. Bye. 32 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer. Additional Details I must say u guys r right but u r missing the real question ; why did she ask me to call tonight on Saint Patricks day (when she will probably be out with frends.)? 14 minutes ago by the way when i said october it was october 2008 and the following may - may 2009, and then i saw her at the new years party january 2010... and today is March 2010. more

Open Question: what do u think of this so called old frend of mine.?

I had this friend and we were freids until she moved away and lost contact so we didnt talk for like 10 years and then my mom died and she and her fmaily came for the funeral ( they found it on on the radio or something) ....so that wa sin october then the following may we met up with another frend of hers ( also my old frend) and went to celebrate my Birthday. Before that we chatted on msn occasionally but not alot more like rarely then we didnt..... except like once or twice til this time now ..... now i emailed her like 2 weeks ago when i can call her and she replied today saying i should call tonight and sorry she took so long cuz of homework .... i also saw her at a new years party and we kinda got into an argument cuz i told her how she forgot me and she got all upset ( but she was kinda drunk) and i wasn't. Basically my question is why did she ask to call tonight on Saint Patricks day when she is probably hanging out with frends I assume since she does go to parties and she does drink so it would be kind aunlikely for her to stay in her dorm on this evening, right?? what do u think? and if she is out then why would she want me to call tonight? wouldnt more privacy be more special or would it be more special this way?? It is already 11 pm so to late to call anyways... but just wondering cuz this got me thinking the whole evening. Bye.I must say u guys r right but u r missing the real question ; why did she ask me to call tonight on Saint Patricks day (when she will probably be out with frends.)?by the way when i said october it was october 2008 and the following may - may 2009, and then i saw her at the new years party january 2010... and today is March 2010. more

Open Question: Does Anyone Have The Presale Code , From Pre-ordering My World 2.0, For The Justin Bieber 2010 Concert Tour?

Does anyone have the code they received in the email or know where I can get the code? My girlfriend REALLY wants to go . & its her birthday on June 25th & I know if I got her these tickets she would do anything for me . And I really just want to be the best boyfriend ever! Plus its her 16th birthday . What could be better? Anyone that could help would be amazing (: more

Open Question: My Ex wants to kiss me?

Okay so me and my ex girlfriend broke up two weeks ago, we just thought the relationship could not last and it was getting very tense, but throughout most of the relationship we were very happy and i did not want to break up with her. So she contacted me last weekend via email and we talked a little, and she is upset, and i promised her a kiss for her birthday which she never got so i said why dont we kiss. she agreed. However I need to find time to do it. She takes the bus so afterschool is out of the picture, and she is always with her friends so i dont want to just drag her away, like i said she is never alone at all. So here are my 2 questions 1: I want her back so should i ask her for a second chance after we kiss? 2: How do i get her alone so i can kiss her? thanks for the help more

Resolved Question: Am I tying too hard in my relationship?

Okay, I'm in a long distance relationship. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months now. I send him emails every morning, afternoon, and after school. I send him letters through the mail, I make him pictures (I love to draw), I make him poems (I love to write), I sent him a ring with '.:J:.Forever in Love.:E:." Engraved in it for Valentine's Day, I'm in the middle of sending him a Gift for his birthday, and I'm usually the one who phones him first every day. He hardly sends me emails, never sent me a letter, got me nothing for Valentine's Day, and never calls me first. Am I trying to hard or just expecting to much? I am totally in love with him and I'm just trying to prove that to him! But he doesn't make an effort to do romantic things for me... He says his in love with me and I'm the first girl he has ever fallen in love with. Also, when we talk on the phone I make sure I'm no where near a tv or game so I don't get distracted but he is always watching tv or playing a game when we talk. It makes me feel like I'm boring him but then I feel guilty for making him turn off the tv/game because it makes him feel bad... I feel like he should just want to do nothing else but talk to me when I call. HELP!!! This is really hard and making me very confused, and maybe even doubt my relationship... (Keep in mind I am TOTALLY in love with this guy) more

Open Question: Help me PLEASE!!! =[?

Well I been going through so much cause just the past few days my boyfriend got into a fight with my grandma about food cause she hasn't been feeding me! But I don't know what to do she don't want me living with her anymore shes just a hateful mean lady!! Everyone is mad at her and I'm mostly hurt by her if you want to know more you can IM or Email me =] I need someone to talk to. But like my biggest problem is I was going to move in with my boyfriend on my 18th birthday and here my grandma lied to his family, saying o I love her shes a good girl but when I am home she treats me like crap BADLY!!! I had to talk to the police officer at my school... She says she wants me gone but when someone asks her she says no... UGH!!!! I'm so stressed I need out of there! But I don't know what I'm going to do cause college is rolling around and I need to start applying but I been sooo busy but I don't know where I'm going to move too!? I don't want to move back to Denver cause my step dad is there and cause I can't leave my boyfriend of almost 2 years! I want to talk to my boyfriends mom again but I don't know what to say?! Any Ideas?? I feel so sick right now from stress... But I cant go to Denver cause my step dad sexually abused me and my mom is still with him and shes very scared to leave him... she told me she beleives me but my caseworker and all the court system are liars!!! Even they made me live with my grandma who is my real dads mom and i hate my real dad cause he is a drunk and never paid child support and here my grandma throws that in my face!! =[ My mom paid child support for 17 years and now she dont need to since she did everything for me... But my grandma throws that in my face!!! I don't know how much I can take this!! I just need to get back on my feet I just need some help to figure out what I should do... I can't go to Denver, my grandma wants me gone, and I want to live with my boyfriend cause I feel like family there.. HELP please =[ I'm so stressed... =[ more

Voting Question: HELP PLZ. URGENT.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

i'm not trying to hack anyone's email or anything. but i need to find out the birthday i used to sign up on this game account. i entered a random date. i've been thru every date in the years 1995, 1994, 1990. so i wanna know if there's any software that'll automatic enter a new date, one after another till it gets the correct one? plz help. more

Resolved Question: How do I get rid of him?!?

I've been out on like two dates with this guy and now he won't leave me alone!!! He has sent me a thousand emails, texting me saying "hello beautiful, I want to catch up with you tonight if possible...I bought you a birthday present" etc. and last saturday he even tracked my home phone number down in the phonebook!!! I've told him I'm busy and that things are complicated for me at the moment and then he says stupid things like "you dont need to tell me everything, unless you feel you can trust me" ??? I am avoiding him because first of all, because he is untactful and rude, our last date went horrifically badly from my perspective as he was openly flirting with the waitress during dinner!!! and secondly I am not attracted to him. I don't want to hurt his feelings because he is so damn clingy, but how do I make him leave me alone...for good?!? more

Resolved Question: Confused on who should i role with and who should i leave alone. (bare with me on this)?

about 5 years ago I meet Girl number 1. she just moved down in my city and we hit it off well. She eventually got homesick and with out even tellin me just left to go back home to her home state and she has been there ever since. but we have been keeping in contact with each other writing letters and emails and talkin on the phone. We always said that we were gonna see each other again and maybe if things changed we possibly would do the boyfriend girlfriend thing, but the only thing that was keepin us apart was the distance. after a while i just was like this ain't gonna happen so about a year and a half ago going on 2 years i met girl number 2. She is really sweet and cool and fun to hang around but the only thing that is really bothering me about her is that she can't keep a job. She doesn't ask me for nothing so i'm just under the assumption that she is not a gold digger. but i would prefer a woman that is at least in school or has a job. other than that i can't find anything wrong wit her. My birthday was coming up and me and girl number 2 still haven't decided to make it a official relationship and i just figured i mite a well make it serious but iw anted to make it serious after my bday. So i had the chance to fly girl number 1 back to my city and she hung wit me on my birthday. probably won't see her again for along time is what i figured so might as well and enjoy it and get serious wit girl 2 after my bday and that's who is gonna be my 1 and only. Well it back fired on me cause the weekend i spent wit girl 1 on my bday really hit home and all the feelings that i thought went away are now back and i find myself missing her alot and everything else and we are making plans for me to visit her and she is eventually gonna visit me again later this year. but i still have strong feelings for girl 2. I'm not tryin to be a player, but i'm so confused on what i'm feeling that i'm not sure who i really want to be wit. Anybody have any suggestions or ideas on how should i handle this or who should i choose. more

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Voting Question: should i talk to him?????????

ok to keep thing short i asked this guy to be my dance partner for my friends birthday party next year(she needs us to practice the dance we will be performing ). well he said yes and his parents said yes so everything was cool. then he emailed me saying " hey i cant do the party cuz i am moving next year sorry" im in the 8th grade and he is in the 6th grade . should i talk to him about it or no? also what should i say when i talk to him about it? and i cant seem to find another guy to dance with more

Resolved Question: I need some friend advice? [Kind of long!]?

I have a best friend, that happens to live states away. We instant message online every night almost, and occasionally we Skype.. And we've been doing this for years (minus a gap that we had- I'll explain more later). For the past few weeks, we haven't been talking. I got sick while I was in the middle of helping her with coming up with some project ideas, and instead of explaining, I signed off and told her I had to go. For a week, she wouldn't talk to me.. Came online, and pretended like nothing happened, only admitting that she had been a little bit mad. So of course, I *tried* to explain what happened- But she would hear NOTHING of it, because she didn't want to be in a bad mood. She frequently did things like this on the past. She would get angry over stupid trivial stuff, leave, and not allow any sort of discussion on the topic, and I had to pretend that fights, etc didn't happen. Honestly, it kind of makes me mad that I always have to play by her rules, so I wrote her an email, trying to explain. She got it, ignored it- And still hasn't talked to me. She has this twisted view on what happened apparently, and she won't believe my explanations.. So I don't know why I bothered trying to explain, because she always thinks she's right. Anyway, the other day was my birthday. Considering that the fight was small, I expected to get a 'Happy Birthday'- AT LEAST. Nothing. Whereas, on her birthday, I made sure to stay up until it was midnight HER TIME, just so that I was the first one to wish her a happy birthday. I constantly do nice things like that for her, as a sort of reminder to her that our friendship means a lot to me- Whether it be sending cards, making her short videos, etc. She appreciates them, but really never does anything cute like that for me. There was a gap in our friendship in the past, about a year ago, where AGAIN, she would leave for weeks after being ticked about something, but NEVER allowed a discussion on why we were angry to attempt to fix the problem. It all spurred because I asked her if she had a date for something, and she eventually got extremely mad at me for being "nosy" about it. We went weeks without talking, got into another argument, where she deleted me from EVERYTHING.- I didn't talk to her for MONTHS after that. I feel like this is a repeat of last time.. And honestly? I don't want to be thrown around again. I'm always the one trying to make HER happy, make sure she isn't angry with me.. And she always expects me to just be there when her hissy-fit is over with. But this time.. I'm not so sure I want to do it anymore. I don't want to feel walked on anymore, I'm so fed up, and just angry about the whole thing... Should I delete her? I almost don't want to lose her as a friend, but at this point, I'm upset and I don't know if I'd even talk to her if she decided to come back.. more

Voting Question: 16 weeks along...no word at all my babys father but hes over in the religion section asking abortion questns?

He and I have a very long, complicated history but it basically is I got preg in December, we were dating on and off for 2 1/2 yrs and were good friends 4 yrs before that. He assumed I would get an abortion but I decided to keep my baby. We broke up and hes furious I "did this on purpose" to get him to marry me. I switched my pill brand and we didn't use back up protection. It was an accident. He hasn't talked to me at all in months but we were emailing each other a little about 3 weeks ago...he hasn't once asked me how I'm doing or how any of the doctors or ultrasounds went. He uses Yahoo Answers too and would become a fan of mine even if I blocked his other accounts. Hes been asking questions about abortion in the Religion section and is seriously just so beyond messed up. He doesn't know I know thats his account but its definitely him. How could he do this?? This is just so hurtful and I feel so alone...My lawyer is starting to get invoved because he has stated before that if I don't get an abortion then he'll get full custody and I'll never see my baby. I haven't heard from him or any of his family. I just feel so betrayed because I'm seeing a different side to a guy I thought I knew and loved. We're both 25 and his birthday is in a couple weeks. No hes not 15 and in highschool...we both graduated from the same college & he has a good job. lol uggh so sad and pathetic :..( more

Open Question: How can I sync a Goodle calendar with my iPhone?

I just added the Google Contacts' birthdays and events subscription calendar to my Google Calendar. I copied the iCal and went to my iPhone -> Settings -> Mail, Contacts, Calendars -> Add Account -> Other -> Add Subscribed Calendar and pasted the iCal link in. It shows that the calendar is there, but no info. I also emailed the link to myself, and clicked on it and accepted the calendar, and it shows, but no info there either. Can you please tell me how to get this to work on my phone? I would love to have my birthdays and anniversaries that I add to my Google Contacts go directly to my calendar on my iPhone. more

Voting Question: 16 weeks along...no word at all from babys father but hes over in the religion section asking abortion questns?

He and I have a very long, complicated history but basically is i got preg in December, we were dating on and off for 2 1/2 yrs and were good friends 4 yrs before that. He assumed I would get an abortion but I decided to keep my baby. We broke up and hes furious I "did this on purpose" to get him to marry me when all I did was switch my pill brand and not use back up protection. It was an accident. He hasn't talked to me at all in months but we were emailing each other a little about 3 weeks ago...he hasn't once asked me how I'm doing or how any of the doctors or ultrasounds went. He uses Yahoo Answers too and would become a fan of mine even if I blocked his other accounts. Hes been asking questions about abortion in the Religion section and is seriously just so beyond messed up. He doesn't know I know thats his account but its definitely him. How could he do this?? This is just so hurtful and I feel so alone...My lawyer is starting to get invoved because he has stated before that if I don't get an abortion then he'll get full custody and I'll never see my baby. I haven't heard from him or any of his family. I just feel so betrayed because I'm seeing a different side to a guy I thought I knew and loved. We're both 25 and his birthday is in a couple weeks. No hes not 15 and in highschool... lol uggh so sad and pathetic :..( more

Voting Question: could someone help me with a purchase on kijiji?

i am selling my laptop on kijiji, there was somone interested in buying it ill paste in the email, and tell me what you thnk, is it legit? Thanks for the Swift Respond. Am Nimra by Name I'm Nanny here in Toronto but right now am not in the state, I want you to know that am buying your item for my Fiance who went to visit Resort in west Africa. Because is going be his Birthday Gift so I want it packed properly,So i will like you to know Am Offering you $700CAD for the item and $200CAD for the shipment Through Canada Post Priority Air Mail Office 3-5 Working Days,and also I will like you to take Off the ad from the website you Post it so that Another People won't take this item from my Fiance so kindly Get Back to me with your Full Name and your PayPal Email so that i can Commence on the Payment.. he talks really weird, and ive never used paypal, i just dont wanna get screwed over, but this guy is offering more then i asked for, thanks :) more

Voting Question: How do I get my ex boyfriend to realize I am different finally?

I was wondering if you would take a moment and read my situation to help me get the man Ive been with of 4 yrs back with me and chasing me. We started out dating casually. I left an engagement that I was not happy anymore in and he turned out to be the completely wrong person. I met a wonderful man who I fell in love with not too long after I left the engagement. He was leaving a relationship as well but it took him a bit of time to finally break it off. We did see each other still which now today looking back at that I know I should have waited and him too until he was completely done with that relationship. We pursued one another being very happy we met at a job I was employed with for 3 yrs. I pursued another job because of job loss and he did as well. Furthering it down the road of course every relationship gets into arguments with words. You say something you dont mean and then apologize after a few days. There were many times he broke up with me because he couldnt understand what I was looking for with him. Until one day he finally did because he felt the same way towards myself. Then from that point on we were very happy both of our families liked that we were happy and we would do holidays, birthdays and had an amazing relationship. Unfortunatley, back last year Him & I went out bowling with friends from out of the area and his two friends. That night I saw a cpl pictures that I deleted from a camera with my boyfriend and his friends girlfriend , she was licking his face! ... that really hurt me. I understand there was alcohol involved but I had every right to get upset. I deleted the pictures and said how dare you also a few negative words to that girl and she punched me in the forehead. I stood back apauled and unhurt because it didnt hurt I just stared at her and told management to get them out. Went home my boyfriend didnt want me to stay over with our friends that came down from out of the area and was completley hurt that he didnt want me to stay also us getting into a disagreement to that fact in front of my house. I sat for a bit then drove over to talk with him and of course he didnt want to talk broke up with me and his mom got involved telling me he doesnt want to be with me and he said that as well. She said many mean words to me and I wasnt going to let her bring me down and I was told that I said some mean things to her which now to this day she still does not like me. Him & I worked things out and had been seeing each other without his family knowing.. I thought he told them. He told me I cant call after a certain time because his mom would be home and of course I broke that rule in the previous past because when you love someone you want to talk to them.. also I came over when it was fine with him yet Im not allowed there and it was briefly the third time I came over to say hey lets go to breakfeast after myself getting out of work early for the day.. he broke up with me over that telling me I disrespected him. I understand his rule just for my own safety but at the same point he didnt understand I was not staying there and still doesnt to this day. We then spoke and pursued things again recently spoke about what we both wanted to see in each other and have seen through 4 yrs .. I was very happy . I was out allday, looking for an apartment spending time with my dad and came home to an email .That said dont ever call again, I havent changed I supposively called his house the day before we were out. I didnt call and I am completely honest with that. Accusing me instantly that I did not even asking. . His family gives him grief because they see that hes lied to them about seeing me and also not telling the truth.. why hasnt he? He always stressed how he wants to see change in myself but really how can you see change in someone when you dont spend time with them always or at aleast a few days a week.. He threatened to put a PFA on me if I try to contact him again.. and of course I called him crying completely upset because I didnt even do anything wrong. I am very confused and he knows how much I love him , its been 4 years and I just want some advice how to fix this and what to do. Ive written maybe 2 emails to his mom and she never responded so I stopped , I tried talking with his sister inlaw and that didnt come out positive either. They dont see that Ive changed .. thats all I keep hearing.. When they havent seen me or know of how Ive been.. Its very sad.. To top it off the most important person is my ex boyfriend now.. I cant afford a PFA on me and most of all why would he be saying all of this when we can work things out.. We just worked things out a few days ago and then his mom was mad at him saying I called when I didnt , also saying I emailed her recently and I didnt! I spoke with his sister inlaw on a messenger 1 1/2 wks ago.. and I already told him about that in the middle of last week.. I really dont know what to do anymore . I am looking for some help.. I am just a carin more

Resolved Question: Need help with iTunes account?

I finally got a iPod for my birthday, so I want to download things from iTunes. Only problem is my mom won't let me sign up for an account because she doesn't want to use her credit card online. If you would be kind enough, would you let me use your account? I have a couple of gift cards for iTunes, and I would only use those. You can just email me your account info. And when I'm done downloading I'll even email you back to tell you I'm done so you can change your password. My email is aaroncochrane@att.net more

Resolved Question: Help with a screen name idea?

My cousin is trying to come up with her first email, she wants it to be cute and bubbly. her name is Dani, she is an Irish Step Dancer, she is involoved with Drama Club, she is 14 and her birthday is April 2. Anyone have any ideas? more

Voting Question: Anyone else have a negative mom? Im here to vent..... Feel free to share?

I don't ever remember growing up and getting along with my mother, ever...... I'm the oldest, the only girl and I have 4 younger brothers...All my life, I had prayed that my mom give birth to a baby sister so I can have someone to share my things with, but it never happened. So I only hoped that my mom would be like my best friend. 29 years later, nothing has changed and we are not best friends at all. We never see eye to eye and she never has anything nice to say to me. ever..... My mom and grandmas relationship has always been strained as well. Its obvious that my mom treats me the way my grandma treated her throughout her whole life. Always discouraging, fighting and not appreciating one another. Everything that I share with my mom becomes a fight. I don't know why she always has to put my dreams and accomplishments down, but she does. examples: I bought my own place at 24.- she says why the hell do you need your own place for? why do you have to show off? You will be single for the rest of your life because guys don't like girls who are too independent... you will fail.. what do you know. I'm married with a 4 month old.... I started my job in medical sales since 22 after graduating college and still have the same job. -my mom said after graduation, only losers have sales jobs, you won't last and its not stable.... i've been at it almost 7 years now. While pregnant with my son, she never once asked me how I'm doing or feeling. We would have dinner with the family and she would ask my husband how I'm doing and I'm sitting right next to her. Sad thing is, I have never done anything to my mom to have her treat me the way she does. I just tell her that I am dissapointed in her because we don't celebrate any holidays together as a family, like xmas, easter, mothers day, family birthdays etc. For mothers day last year, my brothers and I all waited at home to take her to dinner. We called her and asked her where she was. Apparently she was out celebrating with her friends and my dad. For xmas last year, My husband and I brought presents for everyone because we wanted to start celebrating. We ended up watching everyone open their presents and my husand and I and newborn son had nothing to open because no one got us anything. We left shortly after that, when my dad told me to return the toaster i bought him because he didn't need it. gee thx.... I can go on and on. I'm just so sad that i don't have a relationship with my mother. I'm always jealous of people who have great relations with their moms. I just sent my mom an email and told her that I have given up on her and I'm not going to tolerate the way she treats me anymore and that we have decided to stay away from the family for a while since seeing them only makes me sad and angry. She responds and cc's my brothers and says, that I am a disrespectful person and hopes the Lord will protect me. hmmmmmmmmm. (sigh)..... :( I can go on and on about how she always shoots down my dreams and accomplishments. However, everytime she tells me I wont make it I always prove her wrong. more

Voting Question: I'm feeling so bummed...4 months along&babys father hasn't even asked me how i'm doing?

I'm 4 months along with my ex's child. We broke up right after I told him I wasn't getting an abortion. We were dating for 3 years and we're both 25 so I'm just so stunned and shocked over all of this. Lawyers are getting involved and I had to actually block his number with Verizon because hes been so cruel and hurtful. He hasn't asked about any doctors visits or my ultrasounds.....Does anyone have any exper. with this? His birthday is coming up so I was thinking of scanning the ultrasound picture and email it to him. I know I can't ever change him but this is all just so hard :( Any advice? Sorry for the rant....Its just one of those days I guess. more

Voting Question: i gosseped about my friend now i wish i could fix it! (i feel so bad)?

my best friend sinse kindergarden is not talking to me or replying to my text or emails be cuse i talked behind her back. ok heres what happend she...lets call her....molly likes this dude named.....mark. and she has a canapie bed with the huge bed poasts and whenever i go to her house she sometimes pretends the bed post is mark and she kisses it and stuff, well i went on a curch trip with these girls who are really preppy, and i wanted to fit in soooo badly well one of the girls..lets call her amy goes to the same school as "molly" and "amy" started talking junk about "molly" and i was stupid i told "amy" about what "molly" did to her bed post...then the second after i said it i was like OH SNAP! DID I REALLY JUST SAY THAT? but it was too late to take it back and they wer all ready treating me better, but i told "amy" to plleeeassee not say any thing about it to ANYBODY! ok...so a few days later i get a call from "molly" and she is all upset becuse apparently thairs a rumor going on about her that she humps a pole that she perntends is "mark" and i say that i feel sooo bad a bout saying that and that i was sooooo sorry (and i really ment it!) and she said she forgave me... *aparently "amy" had told a nother girl named....."zaria" and "zaria" told "mark" O-0* but i still felt bad about it so i sent "amy" an email witch read as followed hey "amy"! hi, the otherday "molly" called me and se said that thair was a rumor going on that she had a ploe that she kissed pretending that it was "mark", and "molly" said that "zaria" told "mark". and that you (amy) told "zaria", and she was really upset becuse peolpe were making fun of her, now i know I was the one who told you (amy) and "molly" knows that and she forgave me, but i am wondering why you told "zaria". i relize that you were the only one i told about that who goes to her(mollys) school so... well nothing can be done about it now that its allready ben done, but "molly" will continue to be reminded and emmbaresed by that. i know that you (amy) dont like her but she (molly) is still a person with feelings,and she (molly) is verry upset now so idk what we could do about it but i allready appoligized to her(molly), and you (amy) dont have to but it would be verrry nice of you (amy) if you(amy) would send her (molly) an appoligie. im sorry this happend. but today i get a call from "mollys" mom saying she doesnt want to come to my birthday party or to girlscout camp with me this summer. so thats whare im at now i dont know what to do so i need advice more

Resolved Question: Is it normal to REALLY REALLY miss your ex?

My ex and I have not talked in over a year. We were in a long term relationship and I broke up with him about 2.5 years ago. Things got really nasty, he had a really hard time dealing with the break up and even threatened me at some point. Even though we tried to remain friends I eventually stopped all communication with him.I always thought he was a great guy, never lied or mistreated me, we were in different places or our lives and things did not work out. I believe that he moved on by now, he moved to Greece and joined the army there. I'm VERY happy in my current relationship, and I know for sure that I do not have any intimate feelings towards my ex. But recently I started missing him A LOT. it started around our birthday (we were born same day, different year) when he wished me a happy birthday, i wished him the same. And I keep wanting to write him another email, ask him about his life but I always stop myself.I guess I feel really guilty about how things ended, and he hasn't had another relationship since we broke up, 2/5 years ago. I told our in-common good friend that I wanted to get in touch with my ex, and he strictly prohibited it. He said that it took my ex a while to get on with his life and that I should not open that can of warms and give him wrong hopes. But I still really miss him and wish we could be friends after all this time. Is it really inappropriate for me to get in touch with him? Would it become appropriate to wait until he gets a new girlfriend? I just don't know the best way to go about it. I just know that even though I am really in love with someone else and want to marry someone else, I REALLY miss my ex as a friend more

Voting Question: Is my parent's punishment too harsh or the right punishment?

Ok so 2 weeks ago was a really busy week for cheerleaders as it was Spirit week in our high school and after getting perfect 90's or above on all my past math tests, I score a 64 and we get a notice from my teacher saying that I basically failed it. I also got a notice from my biology teacher saying that I missed the whole last page of the test because I didn't know there was one but I still ended up with an 84 (he didn't say this in the notice but I showed my parents when I brought the test home). I made meetings with all my teachers in those classes to figure out a strategy not to do so bad. My family also got two emails from school saying I missed my PE class because I was taking my throwing up friend home (which they are mad at me for doing because I call her my best friend and they dont like that we smoked pot together once when we were 13) and I got back to school late and missed the bus to take our class to the golf course (therefore I missed the class). I also was late to math because I forgot my math book in my locker and my teacher marks you late if you come unprepared. The final thing is that because of this stuff, they decided to not let me go to my 9th grade (year 10) dance (which I reallllyyy wanted to go to) because of being a few minutes late for class and for my math test and supposedly for them getting the "notices" which technically didn't bring all that bad of news. Anyway me and my friend "went to a movie" and decided to go to the dance instead (even though my parents said no) and when I got home they had found out from some other people that we went and they got really angry and I got hit a little bit but also they took me off my National Cheer team which only practices once a week and is kind of a really big deal and their are only 6 more practices until nationals (they did this because they didn't think I could be trusted to actually go to cheer supposedly) and they grounded me completely from hanging out with my friends or even staying after school to do homework or get help for 4 weeks (or until spring break which was in 4 weeks when they grounded me) They also insisted that I am no longer allowed to stay at school for lunch and that I have to come home everyday and eat with them since they don't trust me. I am now missing my two best friend's birthdays which were last week and this coming friday because of this punishment. And just recently I received two lates in English (which they got an email about) because 1. I got back to school late after eating lunch at home the bus never came to the stop. and 2. because i forgot my macbeth book in my locker. My dad says he has no more sympathy for me because of me not being on time for class for those two reasons. I'm wondering if grounding me from any activities and my friends birthdays, a bit of hitting, making me come home from lunch and making me quit cheer is the right punishment... for what i did. Please give me your comments because I would like to show this to my parents. Thank you! more

Voting Question: How do i remove a box.......?

at the top of my email home page that says: New! Introducing an easier way to stay in touch with friends and family, right from here! Stay updated with what they share online. Learn more Get their emails prioritized in your Inbox. See how Never miss their birthdays – you'll get convenient reminders! » Get Started and i don't know how to get rid of it! how do i?? its fairly annoying! thanks!!! more

Voting Question: Questionable pictures?

I recently found a nude picture of my girlfriend in her email taken by her on the night of her 21st birthday alone in the bathroom. Previous to that I found 3 pictures of other guys (2 of the same guy, our friend, shirtless, and one of her really younger friend's what I think are pubes, and that's it) in her email. I didn't bring it up because I thought I was overreacting. And after her birthday she was going to ask me to check her email for some hotel reservations that we made, but then quickly told me not to, so I didn't. But I just thought last night that it was weird that she didn't want me to look, then remembering the pictures of guys i got suspicious and went to check, and found her nude pic that she didn't send to me. What do you guys think is going on?We've been together for over a year now. And I always tell her she looks amazing. She tells me that I treat her better than any of her other boyfriends have...she even told me that if there was anyone in the world she would want to marry, it would be me. I dunno...maybe I'm jumping to conclusions and overreacting? But last night I sent her a huge text about me giving her my loyalty and faith and trust and that I expect the same from her, and she didn't respond... And I'm texting her right now, and she isn't responding to any of the interrogating-type questions. I'm not really interrogating her, just telling her that she has my trust and that I expect the same from her, and no response back. But she responds to everything else. Weird. more

Resolved Question: what are the problems with denying photos of grandkids to grandparents?

ok, my mum in law is about as fake as they come and pretends to like me...long story. my father in law (who has been married to another woman for 10 yrs now) is actually very nice and we get on very well. thing is: im not too sure now if i want to have anything to do with anyone in my husbands family. im expecting our 2nd child and upon telling father in law, the first thing he said was congratulations then he sent an email to my hubby asking "is it time to get the snip"? This hurts me because the parents in law were suggesting vasectomy and the like shortly after my son was born. i was annoyed but forgot about it until the said email. My husband and I are very happy, make a combined salary of over $250k per annum and would like 2 more kids...but seems for some reason i believe im just not good enough for the in-laws. Mum in law sends a few tacky gifts for my son, unsigned pink birthday cards, no cards no nothing for me, yet spends up big and freights gifts to other daughter-in laws and grand-daughters. I have done nothing to deserve any of unfair treatment and hubby believes this to be the case and is hurt as well. I believe the problem to be the fact that my hubby has 2 kids from a previous relationship and I think his parents believe he shouldnt have any more or something?? i may be wrong but it is hard to confront them without coming across as silly or paranoid..apart from the fact they live in another country. Recently i discovered one of hubbys family have sent pictures of my son to my husbands ex-wife, with whom hubby and i have no wish to have anything to do with. we cant imagine why they would do that but we are seriously considering banning them from ever taking photographs of the new baby or any of our children. also no photos will ever be sent to them and certainly wont be spending any money sending xmas cards or visiting ever again. mentally, i dont think i will have anything to do with the in-laws now and am happier already. Mind you, I have always been super nice to them from the start and shrugged off lots of "mean" stuff from them. We are yet to tell them and just wondering if there are any major problems that would come up because of this?? more

Voting Question: Not Sure What To Do Or Where This Is Headed?

Ever been able to give good advice, yet when it comes to you're own life you're lost? This would be where I am at now. I'm looking for some sound advice. Because sometimes, love just isn't enough. I met this man from the States, I'm in Canada. We dated online and over the phone for 18 months, then he came here to Canada to be with me for 11 months. We got engaged while he was here, he brought me a beautiful ring from the States. I gave him one too. He had to go back to the States to get some things sorted out that he couldn't sort out here but no date was set for this. He would talk fondly of the State he was from, while bashing Canada...although he liked it here and now misses it. One morning he got up and left to meet a friend, but not long after they were supposed to meet the guy showed up at my door and said he couldn't find my Fiance. I said well he went out there to meet you. I said try looking for him. Well he did and couldn't find him. I said check the bar. He said not at this time in the morning. Well he had a bit of a drinking problem that's why that came to mind. Well all day long I was watching out for him, jumping up at any noise I heard, running to my back door to look for him and worried he might be hurt somewhere even though he's a big guy in good shape. My gut feeling told me he had gone back to the States, so I called his brother around 1am and he said he had no clue where he was. At 3:30am the following day I get a call. It's him..he tells me he went to a bar the morning before, got drunk, romantized his home State in his mind and took off for the border drunk. Once he crossed he sobered up and begged them to let him back into Canada but they turned him down due to the new laws of needing a passport now. So, he ended up back in his home State. I was, to say the least upset, angry, hurt and lost for words.I told him to you, I'm dead. And hung up on him a few times. Three days later he called me and left me 6 voicemails...saying...I was wrong baby, I did try to get back they wouldn't let me. I miss you like crazy, I was wrong to think so highly of this place, I love you baby, don't leave me baby, I didn't know what I had till it was gone, I didn't appreciate you when I had you etc etc We talked and he was a mess...feeling VERY bad about leaving and the way he left. This was however short lived. He moved back in with his Mum and family, took on much of the chores, spent time with his family "nothing wrong with that" except he wasn't around for me or us. I spent endless hours waiting for him on the comp, only to be told he had to share it so it would be hard for us to talk. He couldn't call me, no long distance plan and no money for calling cards. No prospect of getting a job either, although he was trying to get work. He walked out 17 days before my birthday and in the 3 years we had together he hadn't spent one birthday with me. He sent me an email card at 11pm at night. He asked me to stay home alone for Christmas so we could talk on the comp but all I got all day was one post, off to the store baby, we'll talk later and we didn't. New Years Eve we didn't talk all day and not till after midnight. He has no cell phone, so between everyone having to share the phone there and it not always being charged, phone conversations are limited and tough. What he expected to last 2 to 4 weeks has turned into 4 months and counting. With no income, no passport in the works. I'm hanging on by a thread here...I'm hurt, upset and angry. Because I'm in a postion that he put me in, it wasn't a choice made by us as a couple. To top it off with no job, no way of getting back here and the issues with family and the things he needed to sort out...he's stressed. So who does he take this out on? You guessed it lol me. I have sent him money to help him out at different times but because it's not enough to get him out of this mess...it's not been appreciated. I do love this man and part of me feels guilty for wanting to give up. But then I think to myself...It's been three years of my life, only 11 months together, he walked away and left me to worry, he puts me on the back burner for his family there... He doesn't understand my anger, he tries to justify his actions..but he's far worse off there than he was here, in all aspects and he knows it. He also took the engagement ring I bought him to a pawn shop only a matter of weeks after he got back to the States and did a deal where they keep the ring for him but gave him 20 bucks for gas and smokes..so it's not sold or he would of gotten far more for it. He never told me he did this. I asked to see his ring one day over the cam. He then was forced to tell me. That crushed me..and with all the money I've sent him, he never once took the ring back from the shop...maybe he really did sell it, got far more cash and hasn't told me?? who knows at this point...that would just be assumingNo new woman and no cheating was involved on either side.Thank you everyone! I really do appreciate you're advice!!I would also like to add that I'm a firm believer in working at you're relationships, not just walking away because it's the easier thing to do. But along with that comes, having the knowledge to know when it is best to leave. I'm finding myself on that border sadly. more

Resolved Question: happy/sad ending or keep trying?

i graduated with degree in finance a little over a year ago. im not as smart as people think. i feel im ugly and people say im not. im not sure if its politeness or if they mean it, and i dont even care anymore. im tired of feeling sorry for everything. im sorry for everything. if i ask the time, im sorry to ask, im sorry for being imperfect. i guess i can just never live up to anything. played poker for a year, got taken advantage of. am nearly broke. nothing makes me happy. the only time i am not sad is when i get to see everyone around me, preferably people i value, having fun. i am not sure it was always like this, i cannot exactly remember when it started being like this. my last year has been privileged. i have lived in a tropical paradise, vegas, north carolina and new jersey. i havent had a hard days labor or mcdonalds job or anything, but i haven t been able to pursue any interests with my degree and probably never will. i made a relatively decent amount of money at poker, but i see people i think i would want to be like, and it still wouldnt make me feel happy. my life is just managing my tolerance for pain. isolation. im not desperate. im not cruel or crazy liar. i never steal. i try to help when i can. i apologize constantly for situations that probably dont call for it. i want to experience pleasure and happiness but not even sex makes me happy. winning doesnt make me feel happy, losing i feel pain. i gave up my belief in god because i have prayed for god to kill me in my sleep for the past 8 or 9 years, everyday, and i still wake up. im living on a beach in tropical paradise. im not happy. i have about $800 to my name. i can rent a studio condo for $250 and budget $200 for food, leaving me just over $500, to scrap and hustle and fight to make tiny amounts of money that will eventually build and then play even more and more and more for money, but for what? or i will lose and just have nothing. i am living with a great friend and lease ends in a couple days. i am not going back to usa. should i just spend money on hookers and weed and when it runs out, go swim as far away from shore as i can, into the ocean, until i cannot swim further, then try to swim back, quite possibly drowning after repeated attempts? or should i attempt to grind and make money to try and buy happiness somehow? i want to say, i know this is a first post count, my birthday is close to accurate but not, this is not my normal email, but i want to keep my identity private for obvious reasons. i was in club tonight and there were beautiful girls dancing. and i saw other people happy, and i just didnt feel anything. i felt bored. i felt like, nothing mattered, what was the point. i think im ugly anyway, why even try to pretend you like yourself and have confidence? for what, to try and put on a front so i can maybe get into some girls pants? i do nothing. i rarely approach or talk i dont dance often, i just watch other people have fun because thats the closest thing i feel to fun. if other people are happy and having a good time, surely i must be having a good time? i just dont know anything anymore. i dont see anything. swim or fight?this is not a troll post i dont want a response from trolls please.whining, not winging. and im just trying to explain how i feel. im looking for swim or fight, okay...im not looking for any life advice beyond that. gambling mcdonalds factory army whats the difference? gambling is better than those anyway. you really think the army would take me?i dont want to live to 70. the prospect of living to 27 or 28 scares me. i dont really enjoy much. i dont even enjoy sex i mean, being a porn star doesnt change anything. and sex is better than just about everythign in life, but even that it feels more like a chore than something i enjoy. i just dont have any purpose. i guess fish food. more

Voting Question: Where can I find a website that I can create birthday invitations and send them online free?

I want to customize birthday invitations but I want to make them free and to be able to send them through email or myspace or facebook more