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Classical Roundup: Happy birthday Bach, going for ... - Seattle Times

Bach's birthday, of the Bach Suites ... A Cathedral in Sound: Music director Adam Stern leads the orchestra in an irresistible program of Anton Bruckner's 65-minute Symphony No. 2, Emil von Reznicek's overture to his opera "Donna Diana" and Seattle ...

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What do you get for the man who has everything? Don't ... - The Guardian

Happy birthday Bob Shennan ! The BBC Radio 2 controller turns 48 today ... Shennan also oversees digital station BBC 6 Music, due to be axed next year. Don't know what presents he got, though. "Ah, another digital radio. Great."

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Happy Birthday To You: Hollywood 100 Today - Ananova

The first-ever film to be made in Hollywood was released on this day 100 years ago. Legendary director DW Griffith discovered "the great little village" in 1910 and decided its balmy climate and small scale meant it would be ideal for filming. "In ...

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Theater Actors Sing 'Happy Birthday' to Sondheim - BackStage.com

... sing "Happy ... birthday in two New York Philharmonic concerts next week. The concerts, on March 15 and March 16, will include songs and orchestral pieces from Sondheim musical theater favorites like "Company," "Follies," "A Little Night Music ...

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U.S. theatre stars sing "Happy Birthday" to Sondheim - Reuters UK

... sing "Happy ... birthday in two New York Philharmonic concerts next week. The concerts, on March 15 and March 16, will include songs and orchestral pieces from Sondheim musical theatre favourites like "Company," "Follies," "A Little Night Music ...

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Birthday Quiz: Sympathy For The Aging - WRAL

Think of Marilyn singing "Happy Birthday" to JFK, compare that to Mick, and you'll see definite similarities. Plus, your stomach wil probably turn. What was the famous late-1969 music fest, documented in the documentary "Gimme Shelter," that turned ...

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U.S. theater stars sing "Happy Birthday" to Sondheim - Reuters

... sing "Happy ... birthday in two New York Philharmonic concerts next week. The concerts, on March 15 and March 16, will include songs and orchestral pieces from Sondheim musical theater favorites like "Company," "Follies," "A Little Night Music ...

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Celebrating as one big, happy — Irish — family for ... - Times Record

Bath community leaders packed the days leading into the Wednesday holiday with talks about Irish history, Irish-themed movies, “green” downtown sales, live Irish music, a road race ... The holiday marked a second birthday for the pub and the ...

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Happy Birthday: Public Enemy's 'Fear of a Black Planet ... - The BoomBox

Chuck D , the group's defacto leader, knew that he had become a major political spokesperson and it was necessary to keep moving PE's music, lyrics and imagery forward. He viewed 'Fear of a Black Planet' as a way to arm receptive minds with the ...

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Jennifer Lopez - Lopez's Birthday Tribute To Anthony ... - Contactmusic.com

... to relaunch her singing career after her husband MARC ANTHONY was moved to tears during her musical tribute at his 40th birthday celebrations ... was really just so happy to be doing it. When I was finishing up my album and the music was feeling ...

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Happy Birthday Music Questions asked

Open Question: Tips for a teenage distance relationship?

So, I'm 14 and my girlfriend is turning 13 in a week. We've been going out for almost half a year but I get to see her like two or three times a month. Not cool. I have to convince my parents to take me halfway across the state but she can't get her parents to go along with it so, whatever. It's the most serious relationship I've been in but at the same time, I feel like it's only serious in how long we've been together, which isn't even that long. We only hang out at the mall, she can't find anywhere else for us to go but Saturday, when we're probably going to hang next is supposed to be the most beautiful day since autumn. Where could we go in a medium sized town, or the medium sized city (capital but it's not very built up, about 10 skyscrapers) it's next to? She tends to bring her friends which I encourage her to not do but each time she does anyway. It really pisses me off, I haven't hung out with ONLY her since the first week of December. How can I try to get her to understand that, yeah her friends are cool, but if I can only see her for a few hours each month I don't want to see the back of her head? Or is there something I should understand? Her birthday's in a week, I've got a few ideas but I'm not certain of exactly what would be fitting. She doesn't seem like much of a jewelery person so there goes all the help any of my friends and family can give. I'm looking for something sweet and special, without being cheesy, you know? She likes to read, listen to music, play piano, hang, write, text, sing usual preteen stuff I guess. I'm running a bit of a brain fart though. Any ideas? And I've got about 200 bucks and I don't really think anything over $50 or $60 is going to be "special," if anything "a little too kind." But I'm flexible, I just want her to be happy. What's a good idea? Any other tips on anything about this sort of thing, I'll really appreciate, so thanks (:Fuck me. I hate Yahoo Answers. more

Open Question: 50 year old woman's birthday - song help?

I have to make a video montage and I need music. I'm trying to find stuff that is from the 60's-70's since that's when when she grew-up, but I'm open to all suggestions. The one song I have in mind is "What a Wonderful World" by Louis Armstrong. I'm trying to lean toward happy/sweet. Songs about growing up. She's a family person, comes from a large family (with a family of her own) if that helps. more

Open Question: How should I start to learn piano?

I want to start to learn piano. I listen to a lot of metal, mostly progressive metal, I really don't like learning children songs like happy birthday to you or twinkle twinkle little star, so I tried to learn a song by my favorite band Dream Theater (if you're a Dream Theater fan you know it's not easy to start learning an instrument by learning their songs). I'm just so bothered by playing simple little kid songs when I'm used to being able to play anything I want on the drums. Should I just get over it and learn these songs for practice and improving my ability to read music? Or should I try and find easy music that I like? Do you have any suggestions for easy pieces of music that I can find online for free? more

Open Question: Who can help me with "Country Music Trivia" for US99 & 106.1 for March 15, 2010?

Good Evening and Morning! March Birthday’s & Anniversary's: Stacie 1st , Andrew 3rd (mr. rxtech), crazyH 8th , kim 8th (prince Fred’s daughter), Alice 9th ( Fred’s Mom),rxtech03 9th, Steve 26th (mr. crazyH), Stevie 30th (crazyH son). Baby crazyH WILL BE HERE THURSDAY! will post her name when I can. Happy Birthday to my brother Richard and My boss Ruth! (not here so no gifts) lol Prayers are still being said daily for all of our Trivia Friends and Family and hoping all will continue to get stronger as each day passes. Hope all not feeling good get better. Hope those that have not been feeling good and recovering from surgery's and doing better. Up date on Gerry (my step Dad) home now 3 weeks and getting better a little each day. have to keep you all wondering when I will be asking! :) Thank You in advance! .106.1 facebook: race reviewnascar: kasey kahne more

Resolved Question: Can you guys help me with something?

It's my sister's boyfriend's birthday. Me and my two sisters want to make him a slide show full of pictures with background music. I need a song which sounds happy and carefree. We're thinking of having two songs. We picked one already, "Alright by Supergrass". We need a song like that, if you know any, please leave a song. Thanks.~ XD more

Voting Question: What should I get my fiance for his birthday?

I'm getting him a Droid Eris cell phone and want to get him something else really nice. Maybe something romantic that has meaning? I've done the 365 reasons why I love you idea for him and he was really happy with that.. so anything unique like that would be something I'd like to do. I don't want to get him clothes, cologne, or gift cards. And there isn't much that he's into. He enjoys video games but he has all the systems and games he wants. He also is really into music but there's nothing I can get him that he doesn't already have. He has a very nice white gold band (ring) and watch, so jewelery is out of the question too. I might plan a romantic evening a hotel too, so no perverted ideas please. Already got that covered. Anything creative will be greatly appreciated!He's not a spoiled brat. I just enjoy spoiling him when I get the chance. And he's not into sports, so that's not an option. A concert would be a good idea but he's too busy with school. more

Resolved Question: I can't stand my family!?

My family is the worst. My LIFE is the worst. I could tell you so many stories about how tragic it is, but I'll start when when it got bad. Exactly one week before my eighth birthday, my dad died. I was always quiet and tried to be strong. I was the person people seemed to be least worried about. I was just sitting alone with no friends and a broken family. My brother was always a bully. He throws fits of anger, and I'm almost always the target. I still have a bruise on my shoulder. He hated therapy and anti-depression medication so he is pure evil. My mom gets stressed out. She has school and is looking for a job. She tells me her problems whether I want her to or not. When I say my problems, she says I'm over reacting and walks away before I ever finish. My house always has something wrong with it. The heating in my room and the main floor are bad. There are holes in the drywall from my brother and his friends. The place always smells like dogs. The door to the backyard has a new gap in it and ice came in and melted, now the carpet is wet and smelly. My neighbors hate my family (maybe because we had teenage boys in the family?) so I only have 1 person in the neighborhood I like, and they are just family friends. My brother is 14, loud and smelly. The smelly doesn't have a purpose, he just is. He has friends over every day and has loud music late at night. I stay up til 4 am with a headache and crying because the music is thumping. (his room is right under mine) We don't have enough money. Enough said. When I finished kindergarten, my mom gave me the choice to be homeschooled like my brother (complicated story) or stay in normal school. What it sounded like to me at that age: "Do you wanna stay home and learn or stay in a stuffy building all day?" you can guess which I picked. The result: I have no friends and am stuck here. After my dad died, I went back to school in fourth grade to help my mom. I didn't fit in and was crying every day before i had to got here. In the middle of sixth grade I couldn't take it anymore so I just went back to being homeschooled. Stuck here. I want to learn more, but I can't stand the school here. The people are horrible. The little friends I had were horrible, so now I only have 1 who just moved here. I lost my best friend I had since before preschool My mom keeps saying we should do things so I can leave the house and maybe talk to people, but she NEVER does. I barely go to the grocery store anymore. I have a dog, but I barely see her since my brother has been taking her (I do all the work with her, he gets to see her when she is happy and playful. My mom does NOTHING about it) I don't have any hobbies or things I'm even good at. I have almost no confidence because my brother has been insulting me since he learned what "stupid" means. I could go on for hours, but I don't want to. Pretty pathetic life for a 12 year old, huh? Any way I can deal with these issues or maybe de-stress?Oh, about the religous thing, no. I'm not. I have never been to church (exept christmas eve and other things like that) and plus it doesn't make sense to me. If god contols everything and helps you out, why does my life stink?More drama that just happened: I was sitting here doing THIS and my brother came in and yelled at me for not cleaning up the dog puke! I was crying, I have a bruise on my forehead, and my room is trashed. My mom wasn't home and I couldn't tell her because he took my cell phone battery! I had to put a heav chair by my door to save myself! He also stole my laptop. When my mom got home she yelled at me for not cleaning up the dog puke! "He was trying to make you clean" is what she said. SHE TOLD ME I DIDN'T HAVE TO CLEAN IT UP! I hate my lifeI wish I could just DIE already! more

Resolved Question: Happy belated 100th birthday, Samuel Barber- do you like his music?

March 9, 2010. I love his piano concerto and violin concerto. And the piano sonata. John Browning's my favorite interpreter. more

Resolved Question: Does my mom sound like a bad mom, or am I the bad son?

When I was little (3-9) we were really close. She used to read me stories every night before I went to bed. My dad was always a dick. I can't remember details...all I know is when he would come home after work I would run and hide from him. He used to TRY to help me with homework...but that never helped. He'd ask me a question from the homework paper, and if I missed it he would make me do push-ups. Sometimes until 11 o'clock at night, we would be up. I would sit it my room and cry but my mom would make it better. Later... When I was around 10 years old my parent's got a divorce. I was really happy to get away from my dad. Me and my mom were still kind-of close until I was about 12. We would go see movies some nights. But I gradually kept spending more and more time in my bedroom by myself. Now I'm 14, and sometimes I go through the weekend without talking to her...but she doesn't mind. She's become more and more...bitchy. All she ever talks about is how my grades are falling, that my hair looks weird, or that my clothes look funny. Whenever I try to talk to her she yells at me. Even when I tried to talk to her about not being able to talk to her she yelled at me...lol. Sometimes it's really boring or lonely in my room. I started smoking pot in order to escape and not be as lonely (pot makes me talk alot...to my friends through texting). Sometimes I go to my dad's house...not that often. He's gotten weird to. He has a mullet, and he's started smoking cigars. My chorus teacher has taken note of the fact that I don't spend much time with my mom at all. He..tries to help...but makes me feel like I'm the one who's done something wrong. Then i feel bad that I don't talk to her. I feel like I'm the one who's staying disconnected. When I had just turned 14, I was really bad about drugs. I was looking really hard for XTC and even experimented with "hillbilly heroin" and alcohol. I used to hide like...60% vodka in my room. I've stopped doing so many drugs now...all I do is occasional dope. Am I the bad son? Really, all I'm doing at this point is waiting until my 18th birthday. Dont get me wrong...I do other things too. I dj, make music (possibly on iTunes soon), design websites, raise bonsai trees, opened a dog clothing company, and give life advice...oh and photography, and make candles. I do alot of stuff on the side. I forgot to mention above that my grades are also dropping, ever since I turned 13. One more thing...I have a sister that turned out to be a great person. She has an awesome job in San Fransisco and she used to model. Then a brother who just got out of jail and has no job... so you see the both sides of my family And I'm worried that I going to turn out like my brother because my grades are dropping and I started drugs...that's what my mom said. This is my dads actions in the past/present (he's not a fun mannn!!!) a) he abandoned me in the woods b) he abandoned me in a parking lot c) he left me at my birthday party with no ride home d) he let me chew tobacco when I was 3-6 years old e) he would let me eat plants in the garden. f) he's the one that told me pot wasn't dangerous. g) He is currently trying to steal $1800 from me in medical benifits from when an alcoholic 15 year old tripped me down the stairs (compound fracture, right arm) h) he is making me buy my own car and buy my own gas and my own insurance "aww, hell! You don't need a car until your 18 years old anyway" -My Dad! more

Resolved Question: Does anyone know any party songs (birthday)?

Im having a birthday party held for my sister whos going to turn 21 next week. I need some funky party songs (preferably ones with happy birthday but i'll be happy with ones that dont). Will you give more than 1 suggestion? And please please no old music! more

Resolved Question: Good music from the 50's to present for a slideshow about my grandma?

I am making a slideshow for my grandmas 60th birthday, and I will have pictures from when she was a baby, till now. I want to put in happy songs, and it would be nice to put songs from the time when she was a kid. Any music suggestions? more

Voting Question: Was I wrong for leaving my nephews 1’st birthday party?

So here is the situation. I was invited to my nephews first birthday party. I was sooo pleased to go, seeing that I don’t get to see him often. The birthday party was at a hall. And it began at 6pm. On my arrival I noticed the little darling was already tired. 2 hours into the party the hall filled up with at least 60 people. They were serving drinks at the bar and there was a DJ and he was playing adult music, club music. Not children’s music as one would think would be playing at a one year olds birthday party. I stepped outside for a smoke and there was a drunk raunchy woman out there being very vulgar. I walked back in a few minutes later and 20 young girls were on the dance floor, just a half hour after they told the young children to “settle down”. I was floored. Completely FLOORED. That I told my husband and child it was time to go. We put on our jackets and just left. I didn’t say a word to anyone. They hadn’t even sang happy birthday or anything for that poor child. All the way home it kept eating up inside that I left. Was a wrong to leave because I didn’t approve of that type of party? more

Resolved Question: Recorder sheet music for "happy birthday" song?

Can anyone please send me the sheet music for happy birthday for a recorder? more

Resolved Question: i am now officially 19, happy birthday to me?

what should i do today for my birthday? (im not really excited to be honest) & what should i ask for? -i don't drive (so i don't need nor want a car), have a music player already, have a lap top already, i have enough clothes. my moms spending limit is $150, and my grandpa always gives me $200. more

Resolved Question: Just me i guess..sorry im just bored im not really asking a question.?

ok. hi. My name is......well...lets just call me Doodle. That's what my friends call me. I am 16 years old. My birthday is Oct. 11 1993. I guess you could say im your average teenage girl in high school..well...with your average teenage girl in high school problems. Grades, Boyfriends, Friends, classes, just drama and trying to please my mama when i get home. Now i know you didn't open this question just to read my boring sob story. So if your bored already just turn around and go back and go answer someones Else question. seeing as im not asking a question. Still here? well ok ill continue. Now where was i? oh yeah...well my high school is like every ones Else's. You got your jocks, cheerleader (all look the same btw. blonds and brunets and stick thin with big boobs and butts) yes i i have issues with myself and how i look so i talk about pretty girls. get over it. Now where was i again? oh yes and you have your all A's students that are like a walking computer. you got your stoners and drunks, your musicians who either really suck or are actually unbelievably good. you got your anime freaks, your twilight fans, your skater and scene kids. we don't have goth or emo anymore. they just kind of jumped together, you also got your tech freaks (those guys/girls that have the best cell phones and music players around), your best dressed, class clowns, bad asses, and weirdos. Now where i fit in all this..i have no clue. i kinda float among them all. i love music and i live in a music family but im too lazy to learn an instrument. Im not the worst stoner but i will smoke if i want it. I read the twilight books but didn't see the movies...book was pretty good but it killed the name of vampires everywhere. Im kind of weird cause i like scary movies and i think jason vorhees is the best thing since french toast. im a horror movie bad guy freak. love'em. and i liked anime as a kid and i learned how to draw that stuff in middle school so i sometimes draw it now. Im random and dress weird all the time. Im just kinda stuck with this high school hell. everyday is drama. everyday my friend either get in a fight, get broken hearted, get thrown in jail, or worse. it never ends. I just recently got a boyfriend. His name is...well i call him Bunny. long story just a big joke really. Well me and Bunny have been dating for going on 10 months this 18th. yay us! well Bunny is a blend of a stoner guitar guy. He is very sweet in his own way. No hes not one of those guys that shows his love in an obvious way. He has his own weird way of showing it...like when im with his guy friends he had to put his arms around me. when im sad he likes to act like he is sucking my brains out through my ear. he makes me laugh and i cant help but smile when he is around. I cant say that we will last forever and i wont. But im happy where i am and i wont worry bout the future yet. My boyfriend may be sweet but he can be a jerk sometimes and trust me im no angel either when we both get mad. I hate when we fight cause usually its my fault cause i over react and always jump to conclusions. i cant tell u how many times i jumped on Bunny cause i accused him of cheating or lying or wanting to leave me. But its just me being paranoid. You see my mother has been through many a relationship and sometimes i make her same mistakes. So i try to think things through and not just resort to the..all guys are cheating lying pigs theory. There are some good ones out there. I really don't know why im writing this. Im just alone at home with nothing to do. I miss Bunny and i wish there was something better to eat that instant Ramen. but hey, beggars cant be choosers. If you have managed to stick around this long for this boring story with no pint or question i want to thank you. You truly are as bored as i am. Well im going to end this because iv ran out of things to say and this has helped my loneliness. So thank you yahoo! and thank you readers if you truly have stayed with me this long. if not...well thanks for trying. Gtg. muah. good night dear internet browsers! more

Voting Question: Confused about a guy mate, help?

Hi, I need an outsiders opinion of this situation if you can help. Well i'm mates with this guy and have been for years. We went to the same school and college and are in the same group of friends. I admit i did like him for a while and knowing it was one way i have long since grown out of that and just become best mates. Now since we have both gone to uni (separate ones) and when we've met up during holidays and birthdays and things over the past few months or so I keep picking up small signals from him. He seems to behave differently around me and feels to be closer than he used to be. Like he'll automatically come sit near or next to me and than sitting next another of our mates.Or he texts me a lot more frequently than he used to. Theres other things too though. Like he'll say or do things that seem strange when we're just mates. Like link something i say or do to mean something naughty in a slightly suggestive way. I know he wouldn't do something really obvious if he was getting different feelings for me as he's quite shy. Another thing though is that a few months ago I asked him for advice about a guy I thought i liked at uni and he gave me some but he seemed a bit funny about the subject. Then when i've talked about the guy (i went off him) when we've met up since he seemed oddly distant and not very happy about me talking about it. I keep picking up these and other signals and things and it just makes me very confused. I've also noticed him starting discussions about things he knows that I like, such as films, tv programmes, music or something. Or he remembers a detail from something we went to together a few years ago and randomly drops it into a conversation. Don't get me wrong I love him to pieces, he's one of my closest friends but I see him as more like a brother than anything else. I've known him for so long now it'd feel too weird thinking of him in any other way. So do you think he is sending signals and he does like me or is it just my imagination? I'd speak to him about it but I don't want to make things awkward between us as we are really good mates and I don't want to ruin the relationship we already have. Sorry this is rather long, Thank You xxx more

Resolved Question: How can i prove to my parents im sorry? Sorry there is quite a lot to read but you can just skim it?

Okay so i'm already in trouble because if you read my previous question then you would know why. Anyway my mum asked me to log her on her so she could could ask something because this used to be a family account but then i wanted it just for me because i made it for me in the beginning. Anyway i was in my room listening to some music when my parents called me downstairs and my step-dad showed me the laptop and they had been going through the questions i asked. One of them i says i've had sex which i have ONCE but now there flipping and im in so much trouble. I agree with them being angry because if my daughter had sex when she was 14 i would be too. But there angrier then your average parents because there deeply religious and even though im not i promised to take a vow of celibacy since i was 8 and i have a ring and stuff and i got to a christian school. My parents are flipping and want to take me out of my school which i understand (even though its a christian school the kids there are not so good, lots of girls are pregnant and my best boy friend smokes weed and lots of people are drunks and stuff) anyway so they asked me how it happened and i told them the truth and said it was at my best friends birthday and everybody got drunk and it just happened. So now they think im a drunk which im not because i'm not one of those teenagers who go out and get drunk every weekend when i go out with my friends i always so no to drink and stuff. But i do drink on special occasions like birthdays. So anyway my step-dad whose family are like the most devout christians was talking to his sister and he was telling her this "she listens to bands like jay z, rhianna and she listens to rock bands that one called paramore" by the way her goes on the vigilant website thing the one that says if bands are devil worshippers "i don't know what to do she listens to the devils music i think the devil is getting a hold on her" and he said some more which actually made me cry because he is basically saying im a devil worshipper and a lot of my friends like rock bands he thinks all rock is the devils music. Okay so im admitting what i done was wrong but it was a year ago (i know, its no excuse) but to them there acting like im the worst child in the history of kids and my mum is acting like im pregnant or something she got me some leaflets on the risk of having sex. Also she won't even speak to me except the basic things like go to bed or can you look after your sister and stuff like that but if i try and make conversation with her she just looks like she hates me or something. I've been doing stuff to try and make it up to them like babysitting my sister so they can go out or doing extra chores. But i really don't think i should be punished like this, i feel guilty and i feel so bad for what i done, but i think they are taking it to far with what there doing. My step dad even told my aunt not to bring my cousins around because i might influence them which is stupid because it was one mistake last year i can hardly even remember it. They also think im becoming rebellious which i don't think i am, i do everything they say and okay so sometimes i do something wrong but don't all teenagers? My mum was even saying she thinks i should go and live with my step-dads family for a while to learn some boundaries. which is ridiculous because everything i do is to make them happy. I'm already grounded but they say they have given up on that because im constantly disobey them. Anyway what do you think i can do to show them im sorry because i really am, because i am? more

Voting Question: Guy trouble?? I am so very confused?

Hey guys this is going to be a bit long and complicated, so please see if you can elp me. Theres these 2 guys, A and S, ill give u some info on both A-guy i've been crushing on for 9 years. somewhat popular, really funny, smart, and im probaly the only one who would ever find him cute.(hes not ugly, but people in my area dont go for his type) my moms friends with his mom S-im friends with him. Kind of the nerdy type, always reading. Not the funniest, not the most popular, but hes really sweet.always randomly compliments me. My friends have been telling me for years that he likes me, but i always ignored that and didnt believe them.. and my moms really good friends with his k, now to the rest of the scenario I used to kind of be a chubby loser, so noone ever looked twice at me.. now, i lost the weight, and i would consider myself pretty. A was one of those people.he knows i like him, and he used to not care S however, (according to my friends) has liked me since my chubby days. Last weekend my family and S's went over to A's house for A's dads birthday party. theres was about 30 adults and 2 people my age-A and S. Ive been over to A's house for parties a lot, and we usually just hang in his room the whole time. So, the 3 of us were in his room listening to music, and S goes downstairs for a drink. Me and A were just sitting awkwardly alone. We started talking, and then, he leans in and kisses me. I was amazingly happy that after 9 years it finally happened. But, then S walks in. He just stares at us, throws his cup down and sprints down the stairs and outside. I go after him, but he just curses at me and tells me to go back and make out with my new boyfriend(which i seriously wanted to do but decided that it wasnt the best time). Its been about a week and a half, and in school whenever i look at mhim he either glares or looks away. I didnt mean to hurt him, and I still want to be friends. And to make things worse,A wont talk to me either. He said that I was using S by never telling him that I didnt like him and always leading him on. I didnt mean to make S think anything, I guess I just didnt pay enough attention to him to notice anything. How do I fix this?I've tried talking to them, but they wont listen. more

Resolved Question: I want your music in my ipod!?

Kay. So I just got an ipod touch for my birthday! (happy birthday to mee!) && i have NO idea what music to put on it. Do you have any suggestions? Leave your question && i ill answer. more

Resolved Question: Please PLEASEEE HELP ME (Piano)?!?!?

Okay so , i don't know how to read sheet music. I can't read those weird notes. BUT I do know all the keys of the piano. As in : C D E F G A B . I know the sharps and flats too. So all I want to find is a site so i can learn any song i want according to that. Like for example : happy birthday. if they can give me the info like GG AG C B to the whole song . So i can JUST play the song. I was trying to find song info like that BUT I COULDNT. Cos i don't even know what its called. So if you cant find a site then please tell me how to say and ask for it.Yes i could go on youtube but this would be so much easier! more

Resolved Question: Invited to a bachelorette party, then asked to pay several expenses up front, is this normal?

I don't know. Personally, I find this tacky but I am trying to see it from all angles. I am a friend of the bride, I am NOT in the wedding, but invited to the wedding. It seems her wedding party has a lot of people in it, including maid of honor of course. I thought the maid of honor was to take care of these type of expenses and NOT EXPECT/FORCE guests to pay UP FRONT for a bachelorette party that they had NO HAND in planning. I could understand POSSIBLY asking the bridesmaids to chip in if she could not afford the party she has planned, but to then invite additional guests and expect them to have to pay as well, I just was not prepared for this and did not think it was customary, maybe I am wrong, I have been looking this up online and seen many different views but personally I find it bad etiquette. For ME, the bride was/is a close friend of mine, I say "was" because we were very close friends for a few years then kind of lost touch and JUST got back in touch recently and JUST SAW each other for the first time IN MANY YEARS and she invited me to her wedding (Good timing for us to get back in touch as I am happy to be attending her wedding). She said she would have loved if I could have been a bridesmaid, it was "too late" and that was fine with me as this is kind OF SUDDEN for me and I have been a bridesmaid before and it COST ME A LOT OF MONEY (the dress, shoes, hair/makeup, engagement party gift, shower gift, wedding gift, etc. etc.). The wedding was to be about 2 months after I saw her and she said she would be having a bachelorette party as well and wanted me to come, I said "of course". I have been to showers, birthdays, parties, weddings, everything but an actual bachelorette party so I figured it would probably be at someones house or at a club or bar and involve music, alcohol and a stripper. I also figured that it would cost me "something", that maybe it would include drinks or maybe not (I don't drink much anyway so no big deal if I pay for my own alcohol), I also assumed that wherever the "venue" was that it would be already reserved and paid for by the MOH, and if not, if it was just a "girls night out" to a club, that it may involve an admission fee to a club, which I would pay my own way, just as I would any other night if I went out to a club with a cover charge. What I DID NOT EXPECT was to find out AFTER THE FACT that the plan was to go to a venue which is about an hour and a half away, in an area that is not easily accessible by car, that tickets had to be purchased IN ADVANCE and ranged in price from $56 to $106 depending on "how good of a package you wanted to buy" and the only difference really was the more you spent, you got either 1 to 4 "free drinks" and a "free picture" the $56 fee includes NOTHING but admission. Also, there was to be a cost to ride in the limo which was already reserved and paid for, which had two additional EMPTY SEATS in it ANYWAY, but that's besides the point. There would also be a "pre-party" where you are expected to bring a bottle of liquor (so I assume the limo will not have a bar in it) and the nature of this party requires a certain kind of dress, which then cost me more money to buy clothes and accessories (something I WILL NEVER WEAR AGAIN-picture something like a "costume party"). So, like I said, I find this all out just a few days before the party when the bride frantically calls me because I have not yet "purchased my ticket", I have to say, I was very turned off by this whole scenario but this is a FRIEND and I do not want to miss her party so I paid for the cheapest ticket and will also have to pay another $55 or more to ride in one of those empty limo seats, and when I get there I will have to pay for any drinks I want-I may drink 2 or 3 drinks but in this place, the average drink is $12-$15. It is not even the type of party or venue I would EVER have chosen to go to, not sure how much I will even enjoy it. I don't want to hold resentments about this but I just felt this was very tacky and did not expect to have to pay all this money just to attend someones party. I will be attending the wedding as well and now I am wondering if I need to bring extra money because when I get there, will I have to pay for my plate or my drinks? I have heard of cash bars at weddings but have never been to one. I am just wondering if this is the norm these days, it seems from what I read mostly, the MOH is supposed to pay for these expenses and the bridesmaids should chip in if necessary, but not any additional guests such as myself. I guess I just figure if I were the MOH, I would have only accepted the responsibility if I could afford to, and if I could, I would not EXPECT people to pay for tickets and rides to get to the venue and to BRING LIQUOR TOO and pay all the REGULAR expenses once they get there (drinks). If I could not afford to pay for something like this, I would have it at my home, buy the liquor and hire some e more

Resolved Question: R&P: What songs/bands remind you of when you were 15?

First off, I'd like to say thank you to all the awesome users who wished me a happy birthday. I feel loved! :D So, thanks guys, R&P is *the* best section on Y!A. Now, on to my question...Do you remember being obsessed with a certain song or band when you were 15? What was your favorite kind of music? And if you're not 15 or are 15, well..whatd'ya like now? BQ: When's your birthday? BQ2: Last time you went to see a band play? *hugs* Thanks again! Here's some cake! more

Voting Question: Please could you correct my Spanish Oral?

I have written in English at the bottom, the translation! El primero preparativo que hice era llamar mis amigos para la fiesta el cumpleanos de mi amiga espanol. Invite siete personas del colegio. Despues, fue el supermercado para aperitivos; fritas, bocodilos y bebidas. Gaste cincuenta pesetas. Fue con mi madre porque no tenia dinero! Tambien compre un ropa por la fiesta. Estaba azul y negro. Cuando veni en mi casa, limpie los habitaciones con mis padres y mi amiga espanol, y poni aperitivos. Cuando todo personas llego, fuimos del cine y vivemos The Proposal- es una comedia. Mis padres quedaron en casa. Luego nos excuchamos la musica y baile. Comimos chocolate. Despues del cine, mis padres vinomos en casa y estaba muy contento porque mi amiga espanol y you liapiaros. La fiesta estaba un exito. ENGLISH TRANSLATION: The first preperation i did was to call my friends for a birthday party for my spanish friend. I invited 7 people from school. After, i went to the supermarket for snacks; crisps, sandwiches and drinks. I spent 40 pesetas. I went with my mum because i didn't have any money. Also, i brought a dress for the party. It was blue and blalck. When i went back to my house, i cleaned the roomes with my parents and spanish friend, and got out the snacks. When all the people arrives, we went to the cinema and watched The Proposal- it is a comedy. My parents stayed at home. After, we listened to music and danced. We ate chocolate. After the cinema, my parents were very happy becuase my spanish friend and i had cleaned the house. The party was a success.Thanks in advance! :) more

Resolved Question: Anyone available to photoshop a picture of two people together?

It's my best friend's birthday, and she is in absolute love with Nick Jonas. (Can't say I agree with her music taste much...:|) I wanted to make her a really cool, unique gift. I don't have Photoshop, and I tried getting these two pictures: http://i437.photobucket.com/albums/qq91/xolovebug6/0542.jpg http://i437.photobucket.com/albums/qq91/xolovebug6/Untitled.jpg Together in Paint, but it... didn't turn out exactly as planned. hahah. I was gonna put it in a frame and all that jazz. I completely understand if you're not willing to photoshop it without money, but if you are... I will seriously be so grateful. My friend will be so happy. =) more

Resolved Question: what did You do on February20th?( yesterday) 10 points!?

i celebrated kurt Cobain's birthday ( it was his birthday yesterday (his 43 birthday) i danced to his music watched a documentary on his nevermind album and i figured out the people consider him the best songwriter ever( he is) cuz one of the question on ch1 classic tv channel was Who was the best songwriter born on this day? and the answer was kurt cobain :) I miss kurt I wish i had the time and the money to fly out to seattle and put a happy birthday balloon on his grave and put flowers on it. yup thats pretty much what i did. more

Resolved Question: Is she interested at all? What should I do? Should I keep trying or give up?

So, I have told my best girlfriend how I really felt about her (back in November of 2009) and at first she was totally against it, but after a month of so, she herself was a bit confused on if she wanted to go out with me or not. We really got flirty through our texts and emails and opened up to each other a lot. Well she asked me out to her school's winter formal dance. She said this would be where she tried to decide how she really felt about me, so I knew I had to make it special. On top of that the dance was on the same day as her birthday. Well long story short we ended up getting to the dance, after eating taco-bell for dinner (because she got fed up with the wait at the restaurant we had a table at) when we got there we danced a bit, but her school's dance was more like a rave with black lights and strobe lights and fast paced music and neon sticks, etc. that there weren't any slow songs, so I never really got to slow dance with her. half-way through the dance I pulled her off to the side and told her "you know you mean a lot to me, and I'm sorry I didn't say Happy Birthday sooner" to which she said, "it's ok, I didn't think you would forget" and then I said, "I could never forget your birthday which is why I got you this.." and I pulled out my gift for her which was a gold plated sterling silver necklace with her initials and a tiny (i mean really tiny) genuine diamond in the middle. she stared at it for a bit, and then said "if I accept this, we are still just friends right?"..I stared at her and tried not to look pained while I grudgingly accepted. We danced a bit more, all I could do was kinda dance like 1-2 feet away and just look at her (because she is really beautiful in my eyes) while she averted her eyes from mine. Afterward, we chatted a bit more when she tole me that the necklace was "going a bit too far" to which I guess I kinda put my foot down and said "I didn't care, it's your birthday and I know you deserve so much". she then asked me how much I had spent on it, to which I also just said, "the price doesn't matter, because I would spend any amount on a gift to make you happy" (I really didn't want her feeling bad or anything so I didn't tell her, but I did end up spending about $67 on it, but it was a good necklace, very shiny). Soon it was time to go, and we had to wait on her mom (the school is a ridiculous distance away and my parents didn't want me driving that far in the night), well while we were waiting a group of kids directly confronted me and her and asked me how long we had been going out for and how serious we were, and even before I had a chance to answer, she just cut in saying "nope, none of that, he is just my friend" and when they thought she was kidding, she reaffirmed it. The one guy gave me an understanding look when he noticed the clear distraught all over my face. This is where I was also told by him that a lot of people had been inquiring about me, and that she has basically shut them all down and told them that we were just friends, her mom came a bit later. Well after a long drive where she ignored me and just talked to her mom about some horror movie, I finally had what would become the most bodily, human contact I would come to have with her all night, and that was when I had reached out to shake her hand and thank her for inviting me. Well instead of firmly grasping my hand she kinda just slowly rubbed her palm against mine while actually looking into my eyes. Then I left came inside and couldn't sleep all night. She didn't call me, email, or text me. She really isn't allowed to text or email me anymore anyways (her parents believe it to be unproductive so she is restricted to calling people from now on). I don't know what to make of last night, and I am so confused on how she really feels about me. I don't even know if it is worth going after her anymore, even if she did accept me, how much pain would she put me through? sorry its a long story, but I wanted to include as many detail as possible..please give me some advice, its all appreciated.she didn't reject other people, the guy at the school who gave me that looked understood how I felt in regard to what she was saying. and people were asking her about ME and she was shutting them down telling them we were just friends..... more

Voting Question: Guy trouble!!! Im so confused?

Hey guys this is going to be a bit long and complicated, so please see if you can elp me. Theres these 2 guys, A and S, ill give u some info on both A-guy i've been crushing on for 9 years. somewhat popular, really funny, smart, and im probaly the only one who would ever find him cute.(hes not ugly, but people in my area dont go for his type) my moms friends with his mom S-im friends with him. Kind of the nerdy type, always reading. Not the funniest, not the most popular, but hes really sweet.always randomly compliments me. My friends have been telling me for years that he likes me, but i always ignored that and didnt believe them.. and my moms really good friends with his k, now to the rest of the scenario I used to kind of be a chubby loser, so noone ever looked twice at me.. now, i lost the weight, and i would consider myself pretty. A was one of those people.he knows i like him, and he used to not care S however, (according to my friends) has liked me since my chubby days. Last weekend my family and S's went over to A's house for A's dads birthday party. theres was about 30 adults and 2 people my age-A and S. Ive been over to A's house for parties a lot, and we usually just hang in his room the whole time. So, the 3 of us were in his room listening to music, and S goes downstairs for a drink. Me and A were just sitting awkwardly alone. We started talking, and then, he leans in and kisses me. I was amazingly happy that after 9 years it finally happened. But, then S walks in. He just stares at us, throws his cup down and sprints down the stairs and outside. I go after him, but he just curses at me and tells me to go back and make out with my new boyfriend(which i seriously wanted to do but decided that it wasnt the best time). Its been about a week and a half, and in school whenever i look at mhim he either glares or looks away. I didnt mean to hurt him, and I still want to be friends. And to make things worse,A wont talk to me either. He said that I was using S by never telling him that I didnt like him and always leading him on. I didnt mean to make S think anything, I guess I just didnt pay enough attention to him to notice anything. How do I fix this?I've tried talking to them, but they wont listen. more

Resolved Question: Who can help me with "Country Music Trivia" for US99 & 106.1 for February 19, 2010?

Good Evening and Morning! It's finally Friday! :) February Birthday’s & Anniversarys: Chuck 8th (Marty’s husband hope she is okay?) rxtech & Andrew’s 8th, Janey Delany 9th, (one away from the big 50),Bobsbabe 10th , sasha 10th, Lynn 12th (sharp sue sister), Michael 15th (sharp Sue’s son), Caroline 19th ( my daughters 18th!, Elizabeth 21st, (n7ybn sister), Mary & Michael 28th (sister & 9 yr old grandson of n7ybn) Happy Birthday 18th to my wonderful Daughter! http://ww30.1800flowers.com/product.do?baseCode=93234&dataset=10147&cm_cid=d10147 http://ww30.1800flowers.com/product.do?baseCode=93259&dataset=10147&cm_cid=d10147 Prayers are still being said daily for all of our Trivia Friends and Family and hoping all will continue to get stronger as each day passes. need all of your help, on Friday my step father is having Quadruple Bypass surgery. He is 80 years old which is not in his favor. Thank you all! Hope Urbanmonkey is doing okay. Thank You in advance!For 106.1 AOL: mermaids Country Music Video Demand: nice and sunny Facebook: gold medal Team: Baylor Bears Artist: Miranda Lambert For US99 Nascar: time (2/18) Taylor: white (2/18) Newsletter: McGraw more

Resolved Question: What does my female friend want from me?

Alright, i understand this is very long and complicated but i really need answers, this is beginning to tear me apart, i can't sleep, i can't think. In my friend circle, I am seen as the funny, smart but laid back person. My best friend Peter is small for his age but he's very funny and he's seen as the funniest person. I'm 19 and I am into my last year of high school but this whole situation has had a massive effect on my grades and basically, my entire life....Alright, it all started about two years ago. My best friend, Peter and I were hanging out when we both bumped into our other friend from our class, Richard and he was hanging with a few other people we knew from school. I knew two or three of them, Kate had been in my class but i had actually never spoken to her until now. We got talking and soon we all started hanging out, it soon became obvious that Kate was infatuated with Richard, the two were constantly together, messing and flirting, her best friend Michelle told me that she'd get jealous if he spoke to anyone else apart from her. Eventually, she asked him out but he told her he only liked her as a friend, she was hurt but then she got over it. A week later, he had a minor car accident while dropping her home and Kate ended up with a broken leg, she then began to despise him, she hated him. Soon it was Summer and Kate, Michelle and I began to hang out a lot more and it was during that time that i began to see Kate differently and more than a friend, she was very attractive, had an amazing personality, great style and great taste in music. Over a few weeks, we got quite close and then Michelle asked me if I liked her, I told her yes and then she asked Kate. The next day Kate said yes and we were together...Yet just a day later, i got a text from Kate telling me that she wasn't fully over Richard and that perhaps going out was a bad idea, i wasn't happy as we didn't even get to kiss but i said okay....A week later, school started but for reason, this awkwardness began to come between us, she didn't answer my texts, didn't pick up my calls, if i went online to MSN, she instantly signed out. Every time I'd try to talk to her, she'd make excuses and soon I realized that she was purposely avoiding me. I kept asking Michelle what was wrong but she didn't know. Then something else became apparent....Kate started hanging out with another guy, pardon my French but a complete idiot named Jake, the two were constantly messing, it was painfully obvious that Jake liked Kate as he had asked her out before but she had knocked him back. I don't mean to be rude but Jake wasn't blessed with good looking, his face was riddled with acne, he was a proper idiot, he was painfully not funny (He has attempts are humor but nobody laughs at his jokes, they are that bad), he's soul-numbingly boring (All he does is play Halo) and he's highly rude. I have always sensed tension between us but I knew he was messing with me by constantly flirting with her in front of me. Over the next few months, things slowly began to improve with Kate and we soon began talking again, we became close but sadly, i was now a "brother" to her more than a boyfriend,.To make matters even worse, Jake and Kate's constant flirting continued for several months, people asked Kate if she liked him and she replied only as a friend, yet on my 18th birthday, they got together...I'll be honest, it was one of the worst nights of my life, all i could think of was them together, I was crushed. The next months was the worst of my entire life but i soon learned that Jake was going too slow for Kate, since i was her "brother", she confided in me and kept asking why he was taking so long to kiss her, in fact, he didn't kiss her for two weeks! She apparently wanted him to kiss her under the stars one night as we were all hanging out, they vanished for a while and soon came back, she then told me that he didn't do it. the next day though, he did but she told me that he was an awful kisser and that she wanted to vomit after it. He wrote online that he loved her, Kate told me that this freaked her out, i began to hope that perhaps she would dump him soon but yet in every conversation, she kept mentioning him. I began to wonder why she was with him, he's a fool, an idiot, I don't want to sound pompous but i have been told that I'm not bad looking and as I'm quite sporty, I'm quite ripped and in good shape. Eventually, after a month, she claimed that he was boring her to death and she dumped him, Jake although he tried to hide it, was destroyed. The very next day, something very interesting happened....While walking to a party together, Kate asked to see my abs, i showed her and then she said that I had beautiful eyes and a great ass and then, out of nowhere, she felt it! We soon began feeling each up all the time, she'd let me feel her breasts and ass, it was great! We texted each other constantly, our texts were getting filthier and more explicit, I could tel more

Resolved Question: Free happy birthday sheet music for an advanced piano player ASAP!!!!!!!?

My mom's b-day is coming up and she isn't home rite now. I need happy birthday piano sheet music, but I don't want any of that super easy kind of crud. I'm at least a level 6 and would love some music ASAP. Thanks! more

Resolved Question: Is this a good myspace about me????? any other suggestions 4 a new1?

Hey, my names jade . So, heres the thing. i'm in Georgia. I love it. i love new people. i'm very easy to get along with. i blow out the candles on september 17. i'm 13 years young. HCCMS is where i learn. It's gay, but i love it. i also hate it. i love jawbreakers. you like can't bite them. lol. duhh. i say random most of the time stupid things and i am my own person.okay, so Call me a whore, call me a slut but just remember your opinion doesn't really matter.. . i call almost everyone my "best friend". i have close friends too. but theres only a few i can call in the middle of the night to sing happy birthday to when it is'nt even their birthday.. im pretty honest. no one tells the truth all the time. some people think im fake. I try as hard as i can not to be, because im not perfectI dont care if you like me. im me not you. but how could you not like me? lol jk.i joke a lot. it gets annoying. when one of my friends are upset, i'm always there for them to cheer them up or give them advice, which ever one they prefer. i suggest that you shouldn't mess with them because i will seriously mess you up if any of them are hurt. i love my family. there the best even though we can have our moments. everything happens for a reason, and you can realize who your true friends are in bad situations. i've lost friends because of things i did, but now i know that they weren't my real friends. i love meeting new people, so talk to me whenever you'd like! now, time to talk about me lol :] Sometimes i think im too cool for school. i can be annoying, and i realize that. no need to tell me. inside jokes are fun. i laugh when everyone else is silent. sneaking in the kitchen and getting pizza is not the best thing to do, trust me. We are gonna be guinea pigs someday! I love animals. im not a vegetarian, but i should be. lol. i was for two days. i just learned vegetarians dont eat dairy products. that means chocolate. so, therefore i couldn't do that... it.im really i do stupid things. i leave my ipod outside in the rain. i sit in the middle of the street. i cant do math. its wayy too hard. i tend to always get confused. i forgot how to spell my name once. lol. im pretty crazy. about me's are fun to write. im such a nerd. i can do just about anything on a computer. guys that wear makeup are hott. i like watching TV but half the time i don't know what's going on haha. once you give me money, expect it to be gone the next day. so right there, you'd see i love to shop, a lot. i have an obsession of Pete Wentz, 3oh!3, and that kid at skool. when i'm 17, my first job will be at starbucks, since i love it. i have absolutely no idea what the phrase, "i'm so hood" means. i'm really random at times and i love to talk. i'm a real good listener. if i like you. lol. if your nice and crazy chances are well be good friends from the start. if you make me mad in two days, you can say goodbye. music can make me calm down in times when i'm real mad, i love every kind of music, from emo to rap. i want to be known as someone different, and i want to stand out when i'm in a crowd of people. if you have read all of this, i'm thinking you actually want to get to know me. so if you'd like to know more, just message me! more

Resolved Question: What should I get for my birthday?

Ack, stupid me.... My birthday is this week, and I have NO idea what to get! I'm thinking of a T-stand for my bird(but it's 75$ for the stupid thing!). Also thinking of this one BBC documentary, the Life of Birds. I am a bird nut. I'm also thinking of asking for a canary from this one bird show, or adopting a cockatiel(not sure if my parents will go with the cockatiel, maybe the canary). Before anybody says iPod touch, iPad, or any other Mac product, I already have a Nano and am perfectly happy with one and do not wish to get another such product. I love birds and dogs too, I love to read, I love music, not a sports fan at all. I love the color green and I say to screw fashion. I also like Nike. My age is....middle school, I'll leave it at that. Thanks!Aw, thanks you guys! more

Resolved Question: Birthday for a mature teen.?

A friend of mine is turning 17 in a month but she's not like most teenagers. she doesn't care for mindless or perverted humor, she doesn't wear make up or like to shop or anything girly. she's kinda nerdy and geeky. she doesn't like bright and colorful stuff but she herself is a happy person. love to smile and laugh. she has beautiful dark really curly hair and these bright green eyes. not sure if that helps but hey. she loves music and art and books and video games but i want to get her something unique. also she's kind of quirky and very intelligent. more

Resolved Question: How do would you feel if your best friend.....?

So let me start here. In the last year me and my best friend of almost 18 years have had a hard relationship. And last month we had a big blow up. It all started and finished because she had become a real unhappy person. She was taking her hurt and pain of her ended marriage and financial problems out on me and all of her friends around her. I am one of the only ones around our circle of friends that still wants to work it out with her. She agreed that she was not happy last month and wanted to work things out for herself. She was going to make this year the year of personal growth. She is single and today is her 30th birthday, yes on Valentines day. So Im married and have kids and my life style is just different from her, but i know her she has never been the party type. She has always tried to be a moral person, and does not to the hook up Kinna thing, or party hard get drunk type. Even thought we drink, she never was a big drinker,and in fact if we went out she always hated the drunk trashy girl at the bar. Saying this after last month fight and talk about self growth , she went of a small vacation with some new friends to a music festival. She does love music. She met some new friends at that trip who live in the same town as us.So has been spending alot of time with them. She admit ed to me she really did not like the whole bar party thing, but I know she needs single friends her age, so I thought it was good that she found people,but told her the only thing that bothered me was the whole party thing. she understood? But last night was her party, that was not through by me ( the first time in 10 years ) by her new friends. They through a big bash for her. But it awkward. One side was all her old friends, the other her new ones. The new ones drunk, slutty dressed, guys just trying to get hook ups. Totally something before she would of hated. She was also acting like them too. Ignored all of her old friends. I was the last one of her old friends to leave at 12, because it was just getting to crazy for me. The only time she talked to me, was to say " see this , this is my new life '. I just looked at her and said " is this what you want?" She just told me " well this is what single people do i guess. I don't know what else to do, but its fun'. Honestly im heart broken and don't know what to do. I know she is still hurting, and am trying to be cool with her getting new friends. And I would be glad for her to find single friends, but just not this kind. She is such a smart person. I know she craves intelect from her friends, and as far as intelect goes from this crowd....nada more

Resolved Question: Who is your celebrity inspiration?

You just say whoever you want and explain why they are and what they've inspired you to do. MINE: All of The Killers. They're what made me turn my music taste around and I seem to like a lot more stuff than I did when I listened to the pop stations. They're what got me back into playing piano and learning new songs and a lot of other things that is too much to type. I just feel like they have nearly completed my life... I'd also like to say happy birthday to Ronnie(the drummer) who's birthday is on Monday. NOTE: DO NOT GIVE ANYONE A TD! I WILL GIVE YOU ALL A TD FOR YOUR CHOICE AND IF I SEE THAT ANYONE HAS GOTTEN A TD, I'M REPORTING ALL OF YOU!Sorry, I meant "I will give you all a TU* for your choice"I SAID "EXPLAIN WHY"!!! more

Resolved Question: So today i tried to be completely honset with myself, but only got partway there somehow.?

So Ive realised, i have to be completley honest with myself now, to move on with my life and make somthing of my future. I recently realised, that I will be going to college, not because, im made to go but because ive found out, I WANT TO GO. I will go in at 18, learn law it takes 3 years, be out by 21, get a degree in phycology, then Ill find me a job..... i never knew id plan on doing this in all of my life, but i guess ive sort of always hinted at it, i WANTED to go to military school when i was 7.... its seemed rather fun. and other moments..... I always thought id be a singer or somthing.... it took me long enough to realise my voice is crap. i enjoyed modeling, but i could never do it again. Ive enjoyed the dreams i forever cherished in my heart, of fame, of fourtune, or friends, of fancy cars and mansions, but its not real, not even for the richest person in the world. No one can ever be happy with all that, even though ithey appears to be. I like paper, and organizing things, though for the sake of it i can never myself be organised.so i always thought id maybe be a secratary........ and i still may be. I like computers, and music, and i act pretty drunk for no apperant reason, I feel somtimes its the only thing i can do but i know better. I never flunked out of jwj, i just never tried. if i did try, i wouldnt be procrastinanting like i do now. it seems harder than it actually was, because i never tried. I never really disiplined myself, except for in 5th grade, where i felt obligated to actually go to school everyday. patrols, always go to school. getting good grades in school, just comes to me. i never actually tried to learn anything, it just got stuck in my brain. ive been skipped up a grade. i still dont try to learn anything, i only try when somthing interests. me. ive tricked people. several times, it was i guess a high for me, part of my personal demon some people would say. the reason i am trying to change all of this is because i cannot live like this anymore. its also partially why im going to school. i never really fit in as a kid, always either the quiet one, the overly talkative one, the naive one, the idiot, the genious, the patrol, the walking cheat sheet, or just the weird one. it felt nromal though out my days at school, but all suddenly, this year, i realised i hated it at times it felt like I had lost myself, cause people try to make you someone else, or maybe because iwas just competeing with other trying to be like them, instead of myself. i still dont know who i am though, maybe one day i will .im somewhat sensitive...... i dont like to talk of certain things. i never really knew my father, the one and only memory i remember of him is oen where i was waiting for my momma to come home from work one day, and he was teacheing me how to clean my glasses. and how to use his portable hair brush. also, once, i called hi on my birthday..... we talked for maybe 2 minutes, and then he hung up on me. i still dont know hwere hes at today. i never really have had a father figure. my uncle died when i was little. and when i livind in miami, in a town house, i remember always sitting on the top of the steps, thinking, and thinking....... how no one loved me, because they never asked why i was there. those were strong thoughts for a 5 year old to think. it turned out to be my favorite spot though, ive never found another like it. victor, is just there, and my grandpa is just my granda. i doubt i have any friends aymore...... its a wonder some have stuck by me through my moods..... ive been so close to lossing the ones i have now, but ive somehow made it through. i miss my kid hood though, comming home from beauclerc, throwing my back packk on the floor, saying high to my mooma, my grandparents, the dog, and sitting down to watch carttons, and disney. i never really remember having homework, though i know i did, being dumb founded when someone once asked me in gifted what was black and white and red all over, and i said my most educated guess only to be laughed at, and the person said its a news paper. i remember running around saving ants, and being stupid with what i can recall to be i guess .... my first reall best friends. myia and tyler. i remember, just making fun of some dude because i got dragged into it by some person in gifted too. its a lot in my mind. all the past. not even half of it written here, but i guess its true waht some famous person once said...... the farther back you can look into your past, the more you can see forward to your future. i now see me actually doing somthing with my life, and its going to be somthing im going to be working at ---------------------------------------------- i still need help, please ask a question in your answer and i will put it in my next question which will be part 2 of this. more

Resolved Question: Music for baby first 6 month in this world?

I made a online baby book i am want to add a song to it but i am so clueless as to what song this baby book is from my matrimony shots to his first birthday ( he is only 6 month ) the theam we have for him is jelly bean to jungle king any suggestions? please give song and artiest or you tube link maybe i can do a few different song like one for the first 6 month then maybe one from just when i was preg and one from his birth i don't know ...... any suggestions i would like please help i am kinda looking maybe for a techno or happy fast beat one or else i found this song "Amazing by JANELLE" any suggestions please My husband and father of my son is tamil so if you know of any the is awesome let me please more

Resolved Question: song for a baby book?

I made a online baby book i am want to add a song to it but i am so clueless as to what song this baby book is from my matrimony shots to his first birthday ( he is only 6 month ) the them we have for him is jelly bean (from ultras song) to jungle king any suggestions? please give song and artiest or you tube link maybe i can do a fe different song like one for the first 6 month then maybe one from just when i was preg and one from his birth i don't know ...... any suggestions i would like please help ia m so like blah at this i am kinda looking maybe for a techno or happy fast beat one or else i found this song "Amazing by JANELLE" any suggestions please also my husband and father of my son is Hindi so Indian music is great more

Resolved Question: I want to know what people think of my story... so please could you leave comments... thankyou...?

The day I murdered. My name is Jesse and this is my story. As I was growing up I never had many friends, at school I was always the one who got there head stuffed down the toilet and my books knocked out of my hands. I was the one that bullies found entertaining. It was just who I was. My family didn’t really care, we lived in a small village in London, me, my mum and dad and my three brothers. It was a small house, only meant for two maybe three people. So as you can imagine it was very crowded. I was a skinny boy as my mum was a house wife and my dad worked at the local shop, so we didn’t have a big income coming in every week, just enough to keep us going. Well that was until my mum announced she was having another baby. And from that day on I knew everything was going to change. Nine months on I had another little brother Jacob, and as per usual him and my other brothers were getting all the attention. It was like I wasn’t even there like I dint exist. But hope was coming for as June the 8th was going to be the best day of my life, I was finally going to be eighteen, and I could move out and go somewhere, were no one knows who I am or should I say who I used to be. The sad little boy with no friends. I wanted to be recognized by other people, for people to actually say hello to me and acknowledge that I am there. It was finally my 18th birthday my family didn’t even say happy birthday or get me a present, no even “son you are now a man” just “ so you going to get a job soon“. From then I new that they didn’t care anymore, now that they had Jacob I dint matter. So I stormed of to my room which I shared with my three brothers, I packed my belongings, not that I had many. And I was off straight out the door and they didn’t even ask me where I was going. Not that they will care when I don’t turn up at home later. But anyway there I was just walking trough town when this dull but catchy poster saying “ need to get away” and that I did. So I stayed there a minute started to read the poster, it was amazing it was just what I needed, a new life in Amsterdam. I managed to hitch a ride on a boat in the coal compartment, if no one noticed me at home no one will hear. Some time later I heard the boat siren go off so I knew it was time to get off and start a new life in a new place. After 10 years had past nothing was changing I was 28 and still living in a crummy hostel with no job and no wife, it was like I was 14 again being that boy at school that everyone looked down at. But then July 19th 1876 came , something felt strange when I woke up, something just wasn’t right. I felt like I needed to do something I had never done before, but I knew it wasn’t a good feeling, but still I couldn’t stop it, the feeling was overpowering me. I new I had to figure out what this feeling was and why it is happening to me now, day went by then it hit me. I saw this small club in the middle of the town, the light were so bright and the music was magnificent, I just new that I had to go in and take a look and… whoa it was amazing people with these black and white coats on were coming up to me and offering me food and drink for free, they must of thought I was famous. Well I felt famous in a place like this. Then the loud music had stopped and this calm, soft sound was going through my ears then something just blossomed from the centre of the stage and started to sing, it was music to my ears, and from that day I fell in love. Weeks had gone past and I still went to that same place every Friday to listen to that same girl. Every week she was growing in her self and her voice. Months had gone past now and time was getting on I new I had to meet her, to feel her. So on the night of August the 11th I managed to sneak into her dressing room. I peeped my head round the corner and there she was this amazingly beautiful woman, brushing her long shiny red hair and powdering her nose. Then I noticed she had stopped and was staring at something in the mirror, “ you looking at something” she was talking to me I got scared so I started to walk away until I heard “ please don’t go” in this sad crying voice, so I came back. “my names Beth” she said I asked her if she was ok and she just opened up to me like she had known me all her life. It was phenomenal…Until it stopped and she got called on stage. All that night I couldn’t stop thinking about her and all the stuff she was telling me about, we had so much in common you wouldn’t believe it. She came to Amsterdam looking for the same thing as me, something new and she found it after years of being treated like an outsider. That was when I new I had to go back to her dressing room. So for weeks and months after that we met in her dressing room every Friday before and after her show. we would sit there and talk for hours, I know everything about her and about her dreams, she has dreams to be a big star and she’s invited me along to be part of them dreams, that was when I knew she feltsomething for me. So I finally did it my first kiss I lent over and kissed her, and to my surprise she kissed me back and not just that the kiss turned into more, that night I made love for the very first time. Iv never felt like that before. This went on for a year. And it was at that moment I knew this is the girl that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. So I decided after the show on may 28th 1877 I will propose to Beth and we will go and live are lives, procuring her dreams. It was 9.30pm and I was waiting for her in her dressing room, I dint want to propose to her in her place of work so I waited till I was walking her back to her little cottage just on the out side of town. We have to walk down some dark narrow roads back to hers, the moon was shinning on her hair making it redder then I had ever seen before, but she seamed a bit distant and upset, we finally got to her house and she invited me in. we got into the kitchen she pored us both a drink and said we need totalk, That’s when I new it was time to ask her, hoping this would cheer her up. So I did it I stopped her got down on one knee and asked her to marry me. But her face didn’t light up like I excepted it to. She grabbed my hand and lifted me up, did I do something wrong. All of a sudden my heart just felt like it was going to come out of my mouth as she told me we had to stop this, that she couldn’t be with me any more. That was when I got that feeling again, it was that same feeling I got on the morning of July 19th 1876. Something was coming over me it was like it wasn’t me anymore. I saw this silver blade shinning in the corner of my eye. In a flash I had grabbed it and it was cutting trough her like a butcher would to a pig, but I couldn’t stop it was like something had taken over my body and making me watch the love of my life get murdered… And then it stopped I was back, staring at this pool of blood. What had I done, I couldn’t believe I just murdered the woman of my dreams. I nI needed to get out of there I needed to leave. Next thing I new I was back at the hostel walking up and down the room thinking of what to do, I loved her and she just threw it all away, I could of made her the happiest girl alive. That was when I realised I didn’t belong in this world as its just full of disappointment and heart ach were no one gives you the time of day. So I think its time for me to say goodbye to this world and finally be able to be with the woman I love………. The end more

Resolved Question: I have a question, I really love michael jackson so much, his personaility is out this world,?

he was so sweet, smart, and kind. Well my question is, do you think mj was a selfish person trying to foreful his personal needs, because, I read some info. on the inertnet, and I came across a discussion blog that stated: I know he wanted to sleep, but he knew about the danger, people had to rell him about it, how could he do such a thing, he was dad to 3 prodigious children, how could he do this to them, he knew about the risks, i'm going mad when i think about it, i loved/loves him so uch, but that's one thing i can't understand, why why why! i miss him so f...... much, u probably hate me for saying this, but i think that was a selfish thing to do, and now he's gone, i am angry with him but the love will never die, miss u. This blog was on the official mj site. Now since I read it, its got me thinking that he was a selfish person that only cared about himself, and did'nt care if his children would suffer after his death. I also have second thoughts that he might have asked conrad murry to kill him, because his kids were getting to old for him, as we all know mj loves kids, not teeenagers or adults. MJ is known for dumpping his child friends once they'll got up in age. Macaulay Culkin said that mj stop seeing him because he got up in age, mj also dumped emanuel lewis when he got up in age, and som amany others. Remember what mj said in the martin bashir interview, he stated that if the world announced thta all children were dead, I'm done! And that was starting to be the beginning with him and his children, because his children were getting up in age, Prince will be 13 tommorrow, 2-13-10, happy birthday prince I love you!. Anyways like I was saying mj had no way out once his children would become adults, but death. I'm truely believe mj wanted to die once his children were starting to grow older. Michael always spoke in poems, in his songs, and in interviews about finding out the truth, he wanted to know the truth in all things possible. Look at the words carely in mj's music, an example: "another of me". I believe mj was true self-centered person who only cared about himself. Once he found the truth in everything, he was ready to go. He got married twice, spent time with children, and even bought children of his own that were not part-time as they use to be, but full-time children that stayed with him all the time. I still love mj very much, but I belief him to be a very selfish person, I coild go on and on and put in great detail, but I don't want to go to far. I hope that I'm wrong on this matter, what do you think? was mj really a selfish person? more

Resolved Question: sad rap songs suggestions?

i want some sad rap songs or some stuff with meaning, please dont suggest tupac and biggie i already got enough of those awnsers haha as they are very good, but stuff like runaway love by luda, murs the pain & walk like a man, flipsyde happy birthday, immortal dance with the devil, jedi mind tricks - razorblade salvation, just some music like that, try to stick away from the common known please more

Voting Question: My friends expect me to always throw them big bday parties, but they've never celebrated mine.?

I always get their fave cake, fave color balloons, fave kind of decorations, make their fave dinner, and make them the most awesome gift, (Not like.. here I glued some google eyes to a stick, I make them quilts, custom dresses, custom painted portraits of them with their family. etc) I always have their favorite music on, no matter how much I hate it. I buy their favorite drinks, no matter the price. I'll go around to other friends and they'll come up with excuses why they can't pitch in. So I end up with the bill.... everytime. When it's my birthday, they just say 'happy birthday' and give me a dollar store gift that they picked up on the way to my house. I'm not ungrateful, but I'll spend a lot of time and $ making sure their bdays are perfect. And they don't return the favor. Last year, I got a 'happy birthday'. A cake I was allergic to. A dollar store toy that another friend took home with her. Someones left over valentines candy. And we watched a movie I hate. (I was 'outvoted' so we had to watch it) So I decided to not waste my time, and I havent thrown bdays for the last 3 friends. I've given them dollar store gifts. They've gotten upset over it. And they generally left shortly. I just explained that they didn't pitch in on the last friends bday, so I was broke from that, and that I figured they didn't want a party since they didn't pitch in. I don't get the double standard. I cant have a party (unless I pay for it), but they HAVE to. (on my dime) or they'll have a hissy. I actually want a bday party this year. It's been years since I threw myself a party.I don't understand why I pay for their parties and mine. I think I'm just going to not bring up that my bdays next month. And see if they remember. If they don't. I'm just hitting the clubs by myself. Is that childish? What should I do in this situation? I don't want to act like a baby. But i'm sick of putting all this time and money in, and not even getting a 'thank you'. Don't get me wrong, they're good friends... but it just makes me mad.I just feel unappreciated. I'll spend hours/ days/ weeks on their party. And hundreds of dollars. I decided to stop, and they got pissssed at me. That's what I'm the most torn up about. That if I don't throw them a huge party, they hate me. more

Resolved Question: Is this too much to ask for on Valentines Day?

There is this guy that I've known for over 14 years; pretty much since I was in elementary school. We've always been really close friends and we started dating in high school. We've been dating off and on since then for like 7 years. For the first couple of years, he was always so sweet and romantic. He cared more about me than he did anything or anyone else and it showed in his actions. He's never had a lot of money growing up, so he couldn't always get me the expensive stuff that he wanted to (not that I cared about that stuff anyways), and he would always give me presents from "the heart." After those few couple of years of dating, we started to hit some rough patches. He started hanging out with his friends 24/7 and I never knew whom he was with and most of the time stopped bothering to call me. I know some of his friends as I used to talk to them here and there before he ever met them and I've never liked them. They're irresponsible, lazy, and they act like total jackasses and I think that they've rubbed off on my boyfriend in the wrong way. They also talk shit about him behind his back around me yet he never believes me. Hell, every time we used to break up, some of his friends would try to hook up with me because I wasn't dating my boyfriend at the time. How sleazy is that?! Yet, he believes them over me and I've known my bf longer than them and he should trust me. Anyways, we've gone through a lot of shit together, and a few weeks ago, he's gotten a job again, and has started hanging out with his friends less and has been trying to show me that he's sorry for all of the shit he's put me through. Being the total moron that I guess I am, I believed that yet again he was sorry and wouldn't do it again. We tried to make plans for Valentines Day and I remember a few Valentine's Day's ago he put together this little candle light dinner in his room and put candles all over the place, had some romantic music playing and some wine set out. He really put in the effort to make things look nice. That's all I wanted for this Valentine's Day. I never asked for roses, or chocolate, or a card or an expensive dinner that's usually typical for a Valentine's Day outing. All I wanted was for him to throw together some cheap spaghetti, and put together a simple candle light dinner. His words pretty much on that was that he didn't really want to do that, and didn't want to make time to do it. That really hurt. So, pretty much I guess he didn't have anything planned. Is it too much to ask for him to put a little thought and effort into a simple little dinner like that and to cuddle and watch a movie? I've never asked for much from him and I've put myself through a lot of misery to make him happy despite the fact that he always seemed to make me miserable. There have been so many times when I've scrimped and saved to buy him something really special for his birthdays and Christmas and all of that. more

Voting Question: I'm craving some good music?

ok so I like dark music not anything happy...I don't like happy music. I don't like male singers I really don't like old music either I'm not into pop either Some songs that I adore are maybe california- tori amos my immortal-evanescence hello-evanescence like you-evanescence lithium- evanescence Bleed like me- garbage I think i'm paranoid-garbage looking glass-the birthday massacre those are all songs that I am kinda looking for but I just want songs like them. more

Resolved Question: What's a software that I can use to edit my videos to make it into one movie/video thing?

I've shot couple videos for my friend's birthday of people saying happy birthday and doing little dances. But I want to put all the videos together and make it seem really nice! Like get a cover, and play menu, and like edit it so i can put in music. Kind of like a movie! Any suggestions? more

Resolved Question: should i get back together with him?

'm going to try to make this as short as possible: so there was this guy that i went out with this year for 3 months. let's call him...ethan. so ethan is this amazing cross country and track runner, super smart, and very good looking. i was so happy to be going out with him - but i dumped him 3 months later because he was clingy, a little bit insecure, and sometimes rude to me and people that i like. he was crushed that i broke up with him and wanted to get back together for a long time. (i broke up with him about 2 months ago) these past 2 months, i did NOT want to get back with him at all - i wanted nothing to do with him! recently though, he had a party for his birthday. he turned 17, so we went out to a diner and to his house. because he was now 17, he drove me to the diner, and we kinda just sat alone in his car for a half hour in the parking lot just talking, laughing, and listening to music. later at his house, i couldn't stop looking at him (i mean..he is very attractive!) we've been flirting now, and i'm pretty sure he still wants me back. i'm not sure if i should go back to him...i mean i want to now, but i don't know if those are just my hormones talking. i'm finding it hard to remember all of the reasons i broke up with him. sure he was clingy, a bit insecure, and sometimes rude. but he's also attractive, fast, smart, kind, and easy to talk to. should i give him a second chance? or maybe not go back into a relationship but just try being friends with benefits? (i'm leaning towards that choice) help!!! more

Resolved Question: should i give him another chance?

i'm going to try to make this as short as possible: so there was this guy that i went out with this year for 3 months. let's call him...ethan. so ethan is this amazing cross country and track runner, super smart, and very good looking. i was so happy to be going out with him - but i dumped him 3 months later because he was clingy, a little bit insecure, and sometimes rude to me and people that i like. he was crushed that i broke up with him and wanted to get back together for a long time. (i broke up with him about 2 months ago) these past 2 months, i did NOT want to get back with him at all - i wanted nothing to do with him! recently though, he had a party for his birthday. he turned 17, so we went out to a diner and to his house. because he was now 17, he drove me to the diner, and we kinda just sat alone in his car for a half hour in the parking lot just talking, laughing, and listening to music. later at his house, i couldn't stop looking at him (i mean..he is very attractive!) we've been flirting now, and i'm pretty sure he still wants me back. i'm not sure if i should go back to him...i mean i want to now, but i don't know if those are just my hormones talking. i'm finding it hard to remember all of the reasons i broke up with him. sure he was clingy, a bit insecure, and sometimes rude. but he's also attractive, fast, smart, kind, and easy to talk to. should i give him a second chance? or maybe not go back into a relationship but just try being friends with benefits? (i'm leaning towards that choice) help!!! more

Resolved Question: should it be my responsibility to break ice with stubborn mother?

my mother has never paid an interest in me or my 3 brothers. I moved out when i was 17 and have done really well. Im 25, I own my own home, i have a great job and Im due to get married in a few weeks. there are lots of things she's done over the last 10 years that have hurt me. She doesnt return my calls, doesnt visit, never tells me she loves me, never said 'well done' or anything like that. when i went to tell her i'd set the date for our wedding, she changed the subject. i was fuming! last summer, she called me to see if she could come with me to a music fair. I was very shocked! obviously i jumped at the chance! i asked her why and she said she wanted to spend time with me. this is a woman thats always busy doing nothing, does not like socialising, talking on the phone or music or jokes. we picked her up, took her with us and half way there she lets slip that she'd arranged to meet someone else and needed a lift. that was the last straw, i told her how disapointed i was that she'd got my hopes up that she'd wanted to spend time with me. i told her if she'd wanted a lift, she could have just asked for a lift and I said what she'd done was really snidy! we carried on with the day, a little strained, and then dropped her off home. I then find out 4 weeks later off someone else that 'im not speaking to my mum'. !! I'd not fallen out with her, i'd just not seen her for a bit, which is normal cause every time i ring she doesnt answer and if i go round, she's busy doing nothing. i was growing a bit sick and tired of constantly calling and texting her and getting nothing back, so i'd stopped. I thought, if she had even the smallest interest in her daughters life, she'd call. 6 months on.... she's still not called. Xmas came and went. I sent her a Xmas card. she sent me one. my birthday, I got a card an i txt to say thanks, no reply. ( I cant call cause she never answers). I sent her an invite to the wedding that she had no interest in, that i tried to tell her about last year my wedding is in a few weeks and she's still not RSVP'd. I dont wanna go round because im sick of the constant rejection and disapointment that follows. my life has been much happier this last 6 months but the thing that upsets me, is the fact that ive not actually missed her. i guess you cant miss something you never had. my big bro says she's upset because she doesnt think i'll want her at my wedding and he says she does ask about me when he goes round. I told him it would mess my table plan up if she's not there (lol), she's invited, but only cause its the right thing to do, not because it means a lot to me. my bro's putting pressure on me to break the ice with her. I keep saying to my bro.... im here, all she needs to do is call or text or visit, im not gonna go round there and beg her to have an interest in something she has no interest in - me! What can I do? more

Voting Question: Is it possible this man thinks of me. If he were younger, I'd say maybe. Male points of view appreciated?

-He comes to talk to me and my friend every time, and forgets about his friends or invites them to sit with us if we say it's fine. -He lends me his jacket whenever I say I'm cold (and gave it to me even when I refused). -He grabbed my hand once when talking to me seriously about a guy I was having problems with. -Although he has said I'm beautiful, and have nice legs and a cute nose, he told me last time I have personality in bucket loads. He also asked me if I ever want to fall in love and it comes when you aren't expecting (that old saying!). He also asked me if the person that picked me up was my boyfriend, seen though he knew it was my Dad who gave me a lift because it was snowing so heavily. -Every week he tells us to come back. -He talks a lot and is clearly intelligent. He also seems to believe I am very receptive and can read people's minds. He tries to analyze me; he is a deep thinker. -He has made 2 or 3 sexual innuendos about me and him. -He says I have the music taste of a woman in her thirties and we both love the same music. -He said he was very happy the night we danced outside to my music on his Birthday (and the next time I saw him, he seemed a bit embarrassed about it. -He teases me, like says I'm fidgeting and if I rub my ear, I'm lying; but he analyzes my movements, which just makes me nervous sometimes. -He has said that he isn't trying to get into my pants, even though he's sure they're lovely (he thinks that that is what I'm thinking), yet he has jokes about us in a sexual way. -He gives me advice and calls me Rose instead of my full name. -Last time he asked me and my friend if we'd like to go to a bar after the place we were in closed. We went home though, and he waved to me while our taxi drove past him. Now if it was a guy my age (22), I'd think that he must definitely have some interest, but since he is has just turned 38, and has a 3 yr old daughter, I don't know how he truly views me. He is not married (and his friend has said so too). Please, any advice/opinions are appreciated more

Resolved Question: Question for girls: Second chance with ex-girlfriend?

This is a question where I know the general response (if girl breaks up with you, move on), but I'm looking to see if any girls can give particular insight into any possibility of a second chance. My girlfriend broke up with me because she feels we are incompatible. I admit I made a lot of mistakes, like not really planning something big for her first birthday as a couple. She likes restaurants with good music, nice atmosphere, and likes going to museums and concerts, but she felt like I wasn't really making an effort to take her to such places. Often, she felt she always had to suggest a place and then we would go. I admit there is a bit of truth to this as I only recently moved here so am unfamiliar with the neighborhood. Of course I could always ask others, and I did take her to nice places in the beginning, but I think it was also a timing matter. Soon after we started dating, both of us became busy and I started a new job which required long hours and stressed me out and coupled with being in a new environment (a new country, actually), I often didn't take care of my girlfriend as much as I would have liked. I always did little things for her, sometimes even driving out an hour to pick her up from school and stuff so she wouldn't just have to take the bus home, but I think maybe I wasn't romantic enough and didn't really spice up the relationship after a few months into our relationship. So she sort of lost that feeling for me. We never fought. We broke up because she was heartbroken. I still love her, and I think she felt the love she had for me whenever we were together. But whenever we weren't hanging out together, I think she would keep thinking about the relationship and it would make her sad. I'm thinking of trying to get back in touch as friends in a few weeks and maybe just taking it slow, not pressuring, but just building up trust and friendship over time. I'm wondering if any girls out there have any insight that might help. Again, I know the usual answer is no, move on, but just seeing if there might be a way back into a girl's heart. Yes, this is the classic situation of where the guy should have taken care of the girl more during the relationship to make her feel special and misses her now that she's gone, but I think, because we truly loved each other during the relationship, if I can help her heart heal somehow, maybe I can uncover the feelings we once had. I still love her very much, but will let her go if I need to because I'd rather she be happy without me than sad with me. But ideally I want her to be happy with me and I'd be willing to do anything to make that the case again (as it was in the beginning of our relationship). more

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